Why so many women love watching porn but would rather be dead than admit it
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For the longest time, watching porn has been seen as something men overindulge in while women steer clear away from it.
However, statistics and data now reveals that women too actually enjoy watching porn just as much as men do, sometimes even beating them to it.
Numbers Don’t Lie
One of the world’s most popular free sites, Pornhub, which is visited by 156 million people every month, recently revealed that women make up a quarter of its global audience.
So yes, women watch porn, and not only that, but more women than ever are watching porn.
In 2015, a survey of more than 3,000 women found more than a third watch it once a week.Â
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2019 Google Analytics data show that the audience for PornHub, one of the world’s most popular porn sites (30 billion views annually), is 32 percent female.
A study conducted by the University of Denver corroborated this evidence after 1,291 coupled individuals were put under research. Among the women, 45 percent said they watched with their partners, 30 percent by themselves.
Why women watch porn
According to sexologists porn-watching women fall into four groups:
- Some feel curious about sexual technique and view porn to learn more.
- Others experience male-style lust, feel as horny as most men, and like virtually all Internet-connected men, use porn as a visual aid while self-sexing.
- Some view feminist porn.
- And many watch to spice up partner lovemaking.
Why do women like porn?
Women enjoy watching porn for many of the same reasons men watch do. They find it sexually exciting and use it as a means to help them fantasize during masturbation.
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As a clinical sexologist who’s spoken with hundreds of millennial woman, as well as women in their 40s and up, porn meets a diverse range of needs, particularly depending on age and relationship status. There is no one size fits all reason.
Types of porn women love to watch
Female-Focused Foreplay
Women are masters at holding their cum because they enjoy sex more than men so why rush into something when you can boost momentum, right?Â
Though foreplay was once overlooked in favor of intercourse itself there is an increased interest in touching and fooling around before sex.Â
Some of the areas women love to explore are the overlooked parts such as the face, the neck, the earlobes, or any other area of the body that’s extra-sensitive.
Cunnilingus
I bet you women will watch any porn that comes with Cunnilingus, stimulation of the female genitals using the tongue or lips.
Anal Sex
Despite misconceptions about anal sex, it is actually something that women love to watch and has piqued women’s interest, provided it’s done affectionately.
In recent years, anal sex has gained popularity and today its only gay people but heterosexual couples who are now feeding from behind. Whether it is a passing fad or is it here to stay only time will tell.
So why do women love anal sex porn? Curiosity.Â
Women want to see the act done slowly and sensually, with ample foreplay and build-up. Â
Real Sex and Orgasms
At the end of the day porn encourages people to experience their orgasms and enjoy real life sex and women are no exceptional.Â
MMF – A threesome involving a male, female, and female
Ask any woman around and she will tell you their best sexual fanstasy is being fucked by two guys since she can rest back and have all the orgasms in the world without worrying about one guys runnning out of steam.
One reason women love watching porn so much is seeing this fantasy play out live on a screen
Sensual Pegging
Just like anal sex, women are interested in witnessing the act on screen, but only if there’s intimacy behind the deed. Pegging is the colloquial name for when a man is penetrated anally by a woman using a strap-on dildo, according to UK sex blogger the Kinky Ninja.
So why do women love pegging so much?
Well, it’s all about the power that pegging comes with, The feeling of dominating their partner can be exhilarating to say the least.
The role reversal and power that comes with a woman plowing into a man’s huge, hairy arse – as opposed to him plowing into my huge, hairy arse – is a pleasure that can’t really be matched by any other.
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The thought of a sexy woman putting a condom over her cock, then rubbing it with tons of lube, then starting off using her fingers to get him loose enough before sliding into him, thrusting quite gently at first and then building up the pace and depth as he wanks himself off at the same time slaps different than any sex a straight guy has experienced before.
For some women being handed a strap-on and asked to fuck a dude in the ass is their biggest fantasy.
So why do so many women love porn but would rather be dead than admit it?
It boils down so societal expectations, in the west women can watch porn for all they care without any inhibitions but in some conservative societies women watching porn is frowned upon.
Men’s inferiority complex is also to blame since men want to appear as the one’s strong, sure and ready to have sex at a moment’s notice while can’t imagine the same for women.
Some men feel inadequate comparing to themselves with porn stars who have huge penises and can go for hours without as much as catching a breath.
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