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Itching to go rogue? How about some anal sex

Blame porn or boys club but one thing is clear, more and more men today are fantasizing about anal sex. How the whole thing started no one really knows but at one point, most men find themselves imagining how anal sex feels and there the itch of a lifetime begins.

As women everywhere debate on whether or not to give anal sex, men discuss how to convince female partners to give it a try. When women finally do have anal sex, the overwhelming majority do so after constant pestering by their male partners.

So, why are men shifting to anal sex, and where is the thrill in smashing the cornhole while you can easily switch lanes and start banging clits even while standing? Why are men obsessed with the backdoor Baptist? Whether he likes feeding from the back, turning you into a 3 car garage or prefers ass-to-mouth, the following are some of the reasons men are turning to heterosexual anal sex.

Reasons why men are shifting to anal sex

Power and domination

The most common position for anal sex is a bend over, with the man on top or over her, looking at her back. While at it he can smack her ass too, producing a clap sound that men find freaking sexy. For men, this brings a sense of power and domination.

You can say power got into men’s head because anal sex didn’t start yesterday. Heterosexual anal sex has been around for millennia. Paintings and etchings from China to Europe all depict men having anal sex with women. Some cultures have also had a hand in keeping the anal sex tradition alive. Some conservative cultures like Muslims and Indians, girls perform anal sex to prevent conception.

Anal sex is the rawest form of intercourse

Talk of venturing into an uncharted territory literally. Save for same-sex couples who have been having anal sex since they first saw their first pubic hair, majority of heterosexuals consider anal sex the last thing on their sex menu. Call it breaking their ‘virginity’ for lack of a better word.

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Sometimes, all a man fucking wants is to have sex without the romance it comes with. Just fuck until you cum without worrying whether you held her right, looked into her eyes, smiled back, kissed her … you get the drift; all the romantic shit which men have to endure to get sex.

That shit is intoxicating

There is something insanely arousing about a woman who has no qualms having anal sex with a man. From a man’s perspective especially if it’s a lover, it shows the woman is at total submission and willing to do anything and everything for him. That shit is intoxicating.

Another way of looking at this from where men stand is that women who offer anal sex are displaying their willingness to violate any and all taboos, no matter how ‘distasteful’ because of how aroused they have become. You can fuck her in the ear and she won’t give a hoot.

A woman engaging in anal sex shows her desire and willingness to have sex purely for fucks sake with no thought of pregnancy. In the eyes of men, women who are willing to engage in anal sex tend to be more adventurous, sensual, relaxed in bed, and thus more orgasmic.

It’s a ‘gift’ women give to men for being a good boy

Maybe you actually remembered her birthday for the first time or of late you have been helping out at home or simply like me, you are just ‘too hot to handle’. So she goes an extra mile to show you what a good boy you have been.

In many heterosexual relationships, anal sex is always perceived as a “gift” given out of love by women, a desire to give her partner something special and rare.

Remember a lot of women can’t have anal sex with just anybody so when a woman is willing to engage in anal sex with a lover, it usually comes from a place of trust and love.

Caution: Before you try out anal sex, you need to be aware of the pain it comes with. You see, unlike your pussy which naturally generates fluids to make the whole encounter ‘pain-free’ your ass can’t do that shit so you need a little external help.

The degree of pain in anal sex and how much one can tolerate is a mixed issue. In some relationships, like BDSM where bondage and sweet pain comes into play, the pain a woman might experience during anal sex is part of the allure. In other cases, it is always recommended to use lubricants and plenty of it to ease the pain.

Men and women should work together to decrease any pain using lubricants and proper preparation to increase comfort and pleasure for both parties.

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