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Why older women make great lovers

Are older women really better in bed? Why older women make the best sexual partners

Why older women make great lovers

A man who has been around the block and fucked a few women too many to count and has had experience dating older women is definitely gonna remember some of his best sex.

And guess what, I bet you it will be an older woman. Not only that, a younger man who has ever had sex with an older woman is likely to be hooked and will always seek out older women.

And why not when the guy can benefit from the ‘sex with benefits’ arrangement inform of a healthy, long-term relationships with women closer to their own age.

Here are 13 reasons why older women make the best sexual partners and why so many younger men  are now hooked to having sex with older women

Older Women know how to turn boys into men

By the time most sexually adventurous women clock 30, they’ve not only clocked up more than a few lovers but they’ve been in a number of different sexual situations. Like anything, the more experience you have at something, the better you are at it.

These older women are masters of sex and can turn a horny young man into a full grown man who know s how to fuck like a pro through sheer sexual knowledge.

I mean over the years, the older woman has come across and seen all manner of penises some that won’t even go up, down, or do both and so they know a thing or two about how to give good proper sex.

Older Women take charge

During sex because of the age difference, a woman older than you invariably becomes ‘teacher’; while the younger partner ‘pupil’.

Plenty of  young women still lie back and expect the guy to do all the work while on the other hand older women takes the lead and becomes the sexual aggressor, it’s an automatic penis-pumper and guys love it.

Older women take their time

It usually takes women and some men a little longer to get warmed up for sex. Older woman don’t apologise for this, they make the most of it, knowing a slower, longer sex session means a lot more orgasms and therefore more enjoyable for both of you.

Older women respond better during sex

Many men name responsiveness as an even bigger turn-on than beauty and older women are masters at this. Their response in bed with every stroke, thrust and push you make will take you to cloud 9.

Older women are confident

A confident lover is always in demand – no matter what she looks like. In fact, plenty of sex therapists say it’s an older woman’s sexual confidence which is at the heart of her appeal to younger men.

Older women are not scared to give directions

If there’s just one other piece of advice on sex a young girl should take from an older woman it’s this: you won’t get what you want in bed unless you ask for it. Lots of young women shy away from guiding their lovers because they feel he should “know” what to do – or fear that he’ll see any instruction as criticism.

The truth is, most men love forthright, confident women and would positively relish a more hands-on approach!

Older women have more experience

The age of a cougar age alone means many more years of experience with multiple partners. Before marriage, they may have had a few partners. After divorce, the notches on their bedposts may have gone up exponentially.

Older women have learned what men want

and are eager to find out the specific desires of their current boyfriend. They’ve been taught by a variety of partners which positions and techniques turn men on. They ask questions and figure out what makes their man roar like the king of a lion’s den. What they don’t know, they will research in books, movies or on the Internet.

Older woman enjoys sex as much as her younger male partner without hidden agendas

 They don’t have any delusions that they are going to hook this man into marriage and/or start a family. This takes the pressure off a man who just wants to have fun without obligations.

This stress relief is a major reason sex is great with an older woman who’s not as needy or demanding.

Older women realize the importance of sex in a relationship

She may have been in a marriage where sex was withheld. She won’t use sex as a bargaining chip or to try to get something materialistic from the younger man. Cougars know the psychological and physical benefits to regular.

Older women enjoy teaching their eager younger students

They know when to be dominant and submissive. The man senses this knowledge and power, which is very stimulating. The older woman will buy books, lingerie, sex toys, candles and wine to set the mood.

Older women have confidence in their bodies and sexual prowess

This is a huge turn on for men who may have been with young girls who are just learning the ropes. The younger girls may be self-conscious and uncomfortable talking dirty in bed. Older women are spontaneous and comfortable being naked.

Older women don’t have time to play mind games

The younger man will know exactly where he stands with her. She won’t play mind games with her younger man by not answering her phone. She will approach a man in a bar and not wait for him to make the first move. She will indicate what she wants from the relationship. She will openly share her sexual needs and desires.

She isn’t worried about losing the man if she expresses herself.

Bottom Line: Why women love younger men

A younger man’s robust sex drive, sexual endurance, reliable erections, and erectile stamina enhance the older woman’s sexual pleasure. This is in contrast to older men who can be highly sensitive about any possible inference that their masculinity is declining or not on display, which can then negatively impact the woman’s sexual satisfaction.

An older woman perceives that younger men may desire a sex partner who is sexually experienced, assertive, confident, and active in bed—and many younger women do not have these attributes. Many of the older women believed that their younger male partner wanted to be with women “who were confident in their own skins, who knew what they liked in bed and who were not afraid to say it.”

A younger man is more open to his female sex partner taking primary responsibility by signaling what she wants to happen in their sexual encounter and by engaging unconventional sexual practices or fantasies such as manual stimulation of the clitoris, cunnilingus, role playing, or dominatrix activities—most of which would upset older men.

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