Anal sex: Here’s Why You Should Give Pegging a Chance Even if you are a Straight Guy
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What the fuck is pegging
The sight of a beautiful woman dressed up in black leather gear wearing a harness and a cock is enough to make some men literally cum.
So what exactly is pegging? The defining feature of pegging -strap-on sex- is that there’s a strap-on and anal sex of the partners doing it.
The term pegging was coined by sex columnist Dan Savage in 2001 and since then it has taken a life of its own and gained popularity across the globe.
Pegging is the ultimate tamer of men….It’s like having a nuclear weapon in your armory.
One of the beauties of pegging is that pretty much anyone can peg, or be pegged, or do both.
Why women love pegging guys so much
Well, its all about the power that pegging comes with, The feeling of dominating their partner can be exhilarating to say the least.
The role reversal and power that comes with a woman plowing into a man’s huge, hairy arse – as opposed to him plowing into my huge, hairy arse – is a pleasure that can’t really be matched by any other.
The thought of a sexy woman putting a condom over her cock, then rubbing it with tons of lube, then starting off using her fingers to get him loose enough before sliding into him, thrusting quite gently at first and then building up the pace and depth as he wanks himself off at the same time slaps different than any sex a straight guy has experienced before.
For some women being handed a strap-on and asked to fuck a dude in the ass is their biggest fantasy.
Why some men can’t get enough of pegging
It all has to do with prostate and power. Guys have a prostate—commonly known as the male G-spot – which is a walnut-sized gland 2-3 inches inside the anus.
The prostate is full of nerve endings, and pegging can lead to powerful. full-body orgasms. Remember that enjoying prostate stimulation has nothing to do with being straight, gay, or bisexual—it’s simple human anatomy.
enjoying prostate stimulation has nothing to do with being straight, gay, or bisexual—it’s simple human anatomy.
Also Read: Why are men shifting to anal sex?
Some men also get a kick with just giving up power and allowing their partner to take control of them and fuck the shit out of them.
“Getting on my hands and knees and being fucked senseless just feels incredible.” Ben, told Vice News
According to sex therapist and BARE dating app co-founder, Gillian Myhill the most obvious reason men want to get fucked in the ass is their prostate and having it stimulated “can induce a completely different kind of orgasm” that the average straight cis guy hasn’t experienced before.
Why some men withdraw after being pegged
Again it all has to do with power that is why pegging your loved can backfire.
According to women who have tried pegging there’s an exchange of energy—for nearly all men.
Some men develop some unsettling feelings afterwards. Even if they fantasize about submitting to women, there’s this fear that they have given up something in the process of letting women fuck them.
Men can feel belittled, upset, or regretful afterwards—which is interesting, because women allow men to fuck them all the time, but they don’t feel subjugated.
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How to ask your girlfriend to peg you
Whatever your reason for wanting to try pegging and experiencing what sex therapists describe as ‘a wholesome experience’ asking your girlfriend if she’s down the fuck with pegging isn’t so straightforward.
Here are some tips to help you. If your girlfriend has never touched your ass leave alone farted in your presence, it’s probably not the best idea to dive right in with “just fuck me already”.
Much like the anus itself, it’s better to ease into it gradually. If your girlfriend is the freaky kind try showing your interest by asking for a cheeky finger or a rim job before moving onto the pegging discussion.
Before also going on all four and spreading your ass for her have a deep conversation. It’s the most important thing really. You need to share your wants with each other and agreed on the terms of everything and then get down and dirty.
You can also broach the subject with phrases like, ‘What fantasies do you have/do you enjoy anal/is there anything new you want to try?'”
And if your partner is horrified, you’re with the wrong person! Or, more likely, you’re just fucking the wrong person.”
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