What She Really Looks At: The 5 Things That Women Notice on First Approach

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How to Impress Women with Your 5 Best Features When You Approach Her

Leaving a lasting impression when you approach a woman is not an easy task as you must have realized. Approaching a woman for the first time can be nerve-wracking, especially if you want to make a good impression and get her interested in you. You might wonder what she is looking for, what she is thinking, and what you should do or say to catch her attention. While women have different preferences and perspectives, there are some common things that they notice and appreciate when they meet a man for the first time. In this article, we will reveal the five things that women look for when you approach them, and how you can use them to your advantage.

Face and Smile

Your smile can be a hindrance, if, for example, you have veggies stuck in between your teeth. A captivating smile is a welcome sign but it is also clearly evident when you fake it.

Keep your face looking healthy and identify a haircut that matches your style and features.

Style (Details)

Women are highly-drawn to a masculine physique. Your style of shirt or coat will play a big role in making you stand out and have more appeal to her. Finding the right suit jacket for your body shape is crucial, as different types of suit jackets can enhance or diminish your appearance.

Dressing like a grown man is something you should consider. Think about what your clothes reveal about your status, lifestyle, and personality. Make an effort to pick clothes that convey positive vibes like maturity, and sophistication.


How can you charm her with a handshake if your hands look like you’ve been going through trash? Always wash your hands and groom your nails before an event. Better yet, make it a part of your daily routine.

Otherwise – you can come off as careless, dirty, or even ‘badly raised’ (making your parents look bad).

And don’t forget about dry hands with cracked skin! Do you need hand lotion? The natural oil your body produces usually keeps your skin smooth. If your hands are lacking natural oil, I strongly suggest you apply a hand lotion or cream regularly.


Everything else I have mentioned won’t count unless you smell good. You can settle for a neutral body scent or deodorant but you can always go an extra step and smell great. Good masculine fragrance doesn’t hang around in the room minutes after you left but gives a lasting memory each time she thinks about you.

Mannerisms (Body Language and Voice)

Yeah, women do care about what you say to them and how you say it. Expand your knowledge and vocabulary, speak confidently, and look into her eyes when complimenting her. Learning how to speak in an engaging way is a huge plus.

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