How To Get Back Together With A Sexy Ex

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How To Get An Ex To Love You All Over Again

Sometimes a person in our past may seem so attractive that all of a sudden you crave to have them back in your life. Before you reach out for your phone and link up with them for the millionth time, you should keep in mind that they are an ex for a reason. Sometimes we experience relationship amnesia; we tend to forget the events and feelings relating to the true nature of a relationship after it ends.

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Getting back with a sexy ex is also easier than getting to know someone new. Terri Orbuch author of Finding Love Again says, “We often aren’t interested in someone new because we have to get to know someone new and that takes time…when with our ex, we already know what we like, don’t like, and how they act.”Getting back together with an ex could end up with a star-studded and glamorous wedding or it could rekindle the non-ending drama you had before. Here are must-follow rules that will help you get back with an ex:

1. Don’t Be Bitter

Bitterness makes you nostalgic and can leave you feeling angry about how things ended. No matter the exact reason for your breakup, you don’t have to take it personally. Pent-up bitterness may leave you feeling miserable as such you should suppress your bitterness and don’t let it get in your mind as it may leave you feeling more heartbroken.

2. Know Why They Lost Feelings For You

People lose feelings for other people due to various reasons. Maybe your ex did not see a future with the relationship or they were just not emotionally ready for a relationship. It is crucial to know why your ex lost feelings for you so that you may know what to rectify whatever may have gone wrong in the relationship.

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3. Give Them Their Space

Time and space are crucial in helping your ex get over the past turmoil or relationship trauma. In that time don’t call, text or even attempt reaching out to them as it may make you come off as a desperate person. Don’t be pushy, rather give them time before you approach them again.

4. Understand What Your Ex Is Feeling

Understanding your ex-partner’s feelings determines whether you will get back together with them or not. You need to be patient and give them time to process their feelings. In as much as you want to take time to process your feelings, be sure to make your partner feel good and positive so they may go over their feelings again and be ready to take the relationship to where it was before.

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5. Focus On Self Improvement

Take some time out from being involved with your ex and focus on improving some areas in your life including your relationships with other people, trying a new hobby and going out on dates with your friends. Work on yourself and give your ex a clear picture of what they will be missing out on.

6. Attract Them Back With Fresh Feelings

It is necessary to have some time between a breakup and when you start trying to win your ex back. They need to get over the pain so that when you get back together they are ready for a revived relationship and make it clear that you are ready to start a new relationship. If you still hold onto old ideas and notions that put you and your partner asunder just be sure that your relationship will break off again.

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