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All you need to know about working as an escort in Africa

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Working as an Exotic Escort in Africa 

Are you thinking of working as an Exotic Escort? Are you interested in the business? 

Just like any other field, being an escort has its own pros and cons. 

The Pros: be your own boss, flexible hours, really good money, and an opportunity to provide escort companionship to those in need. 

The Cons: the industry can be dangerous at times. It is closely associated with drug abuse, sometimes clients act shitty and in many places the trade is illegal. 

This is not a job for everyone. Intimate company can take its toll on mind and body and it would be best not to dive into it blindly. This gig requires mental toughness and independence but the hardest part is being sensitive enough to pick up on the needs and moods of your clients. 

So, What do escorts actually do? 

Escorts are not Prostitutes. Prostitutes trade on the streets while escorts provide classier, discrete, personalized services to clients. Sometimes they accompany clients to events. This is to imply that you will definitely have to be well-groomed and have a great personality; a charismatic and fun date. 

In any business venture, whatever you are prepared to sell, someone will always be willing to buy; it’s all about marketing and reaching the right client pool. Sex is commonly part of the deal, but being an escort is more about being an intimate companion, creating the right atmosphere, and attending to your client’s needs. 

For men and women, the escort business is slightly different. Men catering to women clients for example are generally required to provide a ‘boyfriend’ type of experience. In contrast, women escorts serving men can provide anything from straight-up jackhammer banging to BDSM to weird fetishes. The needs of lonely men and women are very different. 

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Still, want to be an escort? Let’s do some brainstorming:

Q: Work under agency vs Being independent? 

Agencies provide escorts with a platform on which to present their skills and profiles directly to a client base. This means you may have to work shifts and adhere to their policies on appearance and behavior towards clients. A good agency will provide health benefits, protection and may even screen clients for you. On the other hand, being independent means you get to make all the rules. What you do, when you do it, and how often. However, you may not have the muscle to protect yourself, and hiring private security can be expensive. Another drawback is that you may have to work very hard to build your own client base. 

Q: Have you got sex appeal? 

Escorts are expected to be cool and ooze sexual appeal with style and class. Going out to events will be a norm and you have to be confident to excel socially. Balance your work schedule to avoid being emotionally and physically drained. A good escort can read a client’s needs and desires. This ensures customer satisfaction. 

Q: Have you got boundaries? 

Set boundaries, hold and stick to your own rules on what you are prepared to do: 

  • Are you willing to have sex without a condom? 
  • Can you handle group sex? 
  • Are you willing to do call-ins to your home or go out to a client’s home? 
  • Will you swallow? 
  • Is anal okay? 

Always be firm when asserting your boundaries. However, try not to piss off the client. Make it clear that some actions are personal for you, if you have any, for example kissing. 

Q: Are you well-groomed and in shape? 

Just like a dancer or an athlete, your body needs to be in shape and healthy to fend off illnesses and injuries. An important part of your budget has to be dedicated to looking and feeling good. As an escort you will come into close contact with many people and with their bodily fluids, therefore a healthy body and immune system will help keep you on point. 

Q: Can you handle your personal relationships? 

The path of an escort can be lonely and isolated. Most escorts do not disclose what they do to close friends and family for fear of hurting them or being judged. Either way, you have to be honest with yourself and be prepared for the haters out there.

Also Read: Top 5 attributes of an Elite Escort 

Once you are convinced you are ready, here’s what to expect: 

  • The largest client base for both men and women escorts is married men. They will make up about 80% of your customers. These are normal men, just lonely and probably feel sexually marginalized.  The discretion is just to protect their families. 
  • At times you will meet clients that you instantly dislike and feel like you just want to get it over and done with. They may be rude or make you feel uncomfortable. However, putting up with assholes isn’t worth the money. These are the ones you will have to avoid seeing more than once 

And now, here are the benefits of being an escort: 

  • Reasonable money 
  • Dating/sex with no strings attached 
  • Getting paid to look your best, your sexiest, and be pampered 
  • It might help boost your confidence about your body’s sexuality
  • You may feel empowered 
  • Contentment in providing people with intimacy

Caution!! 

  • You are in a line of work where you meet up with strangers, putting your health and physical safety at risk. Be mindful of perverts and talk to other escorts who might have seen a client just to know how dodgy they could get. 
  • Most men don’t like condoms. However, never let your guard down by unnecessary risk. Be firm about protection, then ask nicely with a twinkle in your eye. 
  • Get tested regularly. Be screened for STDs every 8 weeks. 
  • Be money-wise. Cash is rapidly becoming an outdated method of payment. This is a downside since electronic payments leave paper trails. Be very cautious, you could use several apps on your phone that you can use to transfer money safely online such as Paypal, Square, and Payment Pebble 

Also Read: Do’s and don’ts when engaging with an escort, according to an escort

Making money as an escort 

To become an elite escort, you have to climb up the ladder while managing your money to turn it into something sustainable. 

  • Blogging- maximize traffic to your spicy, erotic profile and invest in the web to gain the advantage of reaching a large client base from the comfort of your home. 
  • Pricing- you don’t want to underprice yourself, people will think you are desperate or offer poor services. Neither should you over-price yourself right out of the market. As you gain reputation and experience over time you can start upping your fees. Avoid posting your fees online. Rather send them to clients via private messaging upon request.
  • Banking- do not deposit huge sums of money at a go. Get an account that is not interest-bearing. This way you won’t get taxed. Avoid regular banking routines and vary your deposit types; cash, cheque, internet transfer, etc. You could also enlist for multiple accounts at different institutions to spread small amounts of money around in different places. 
  • Budget- creating and sticking to a budget is very important. Here are some suggestions on how to divide up  that stash: 
  • Appearance: gym, yoga, hair, nails, tan, outfits 
  • Expenses: rent, insurance, bills 
  • Savings: try to aim to save 30% of your income
  • Self-marketing and advertising: agency fees, blogging, advertising, keeping up to date  

Also Read: Where to find the most expensive escorts in Africa 

 

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