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Do’s and don’ts when engaging with an escort, according to an escort

Guys please, do not send pics of your dick to an escort, unless you are paying them to look! I mean, yeah, that’s how annoying it gets when you send dick pics to a person who literally has to see several dicks and guys behaving like dicks in a day. 

Here are some ways of How to Treat Escorts, According to an Escort: 

Communication

• Always respect the hooker’s stand. ‘No means no’. Remember that you are getting a service and interacting with a human being. 
• Avoid speaking explicitly; either on emails or text. It is never a good idea to mention how hard you are going to go down on them or speak about something frowned upon by society. It’s sketchy 
• As the client, provide all necessary information in the first email. Give names and addresses. The escort should also guide you on her ‘Code of Conduct’ or ‘Terms of Service’ 

Money

Paypal payments are notoriously risky for adult work. Sex workers’ accounts get shut down and payments get canceled.

Credit card payments can be revoked.

Not paying the escort or sex worker is rape! Tricking someone to having sex with you is not true consent. This is very unfair, especially after offering you mind-blowing service. 

Cash is always King! It takes a lot of time and effort to look sexy and classy. Your fantasy is quite extravagant but doesn’t cost a dime to go to the bank like a big boy! 

Also Read: How Strip Clubs and Escort Services Keep You Safe

In-Person

Whether an In-Call or an Out-Call, here are some guidelines on how to treat an escort: 

• If you are offered a show, do not decline – that’s rude. The escort has taken time to shower, clean up and be intimate with you. The least you could do is let them run the show. Sit back and get your mind blown away 
• Do not make dead hooker jokes. “What’s the difference between a hooker and a drug dealer? A hooker can wash her crack and resell it.” Okay! That right there is a rib-cracker. However, at no point will these jokes be funny to the escort. 
• If interested in BDSM, talk about it before attempting to do so. Do not make assumptions, always communicate. Do not find yourself having to explain, “I saw you do this in the movies, so I thought you liked it…” First of all, it is not okay. Porn stars don’t necessarily do all that you see in movies. These are two totally different situations. 
• Escorts are not mind-readers. If you have a specific idea in mind and the escort does not fulfill it because you didn’t say anything about it, then that’s on you! You only got yourself to blame, so next time learn to communicate. 

Also Read: I can’t breathe! Ugandan men refuse to wear face masks while fucking sex workers

Always Remember: You are not buying a person; not buying a body, you are buying a service. Paying for the service does not allow you to do anything you want. At the end of the day, the escort goes back home with her body!

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