Dating apps have made hookup sex one of the easiest things to partake in. You can approach a number of people who are into one-time bomb sessions on such apps without a sweat.
Through the apps, you can avoid the awkwardness of directly approaching someone for a hookup which could be met by rejection. In as much as hookups are just plain casual and may lack intimacy, there’s something sexy about going down with a new person. Here are surefire tips that will assure you of a bomb hookup session:
Communicate your needs
Be honest and upfront with your needs to your hook-up. If you are just seeking a one-time sex experience, remember to communicate that to your partner. The right partner will determine whether you are both on the same page or not. In case you are not on the same page, they have the chance to exit gracefully and give you the chance to get someone else.
Be bold to lean in first
Do not be afraid of taking the lead as it will make your partner’s work easier and they won’t have the tension of waiting for you to take the reins into your hands.
Be kind to your hook-up
Engaging in a no strings attached type of relationship is not enough reason to be rude to your hookup. Consider being gracious to your hook-up by making your house inviting for the best steamy session. Prepare coffee for your hook-up, grab them an uber or let them stay the night over if you can’t quite figure out if they will get home safe.
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Don’t hook up with a potential partner
When choosing a hookup, you need to go for a person who has no prospects of being a future partner. The whole idea is to get someone that you both love and hate. Someone who has got different tastes in dressing or music but you can have an animal connection with.
Keep the conversations light
Communication about what you both expect is recommended. Oversharing information about yourself is not advisable, so keep those boring talks about politics and religion to yourself. Focus on the sex talk and how you can make it great!
Since this is a casual sex relationship, you need to avoid any form of intimacy that will bind you to a serious relationship. Cuddling is a sure way to release oxytocin a chemical that is responsible for bonding. This will make the bond you share to be tight, the last thing you would want. Also, avoid checking up on each other every minute since that is a bonding behavior. It is appropriate to text only about where you’ll meet and what you desire to do to each other’s bodies as opposed to what you feel for each other.
Discreetness matters, alot
If my intuitions serve me right, you must be a gentleman and we all know that gentlemen don’t kiss and tell. It is therefore important to keep details about your hookup to yourself. Don’t broadcast to the world about your steamy sessions with your hook-up. If you must tell someone about it, share it with a close friend who doesn’t know your hookup.
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