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It wasn’t Me

According to infidelity statistics, about 40% of unmarried relationships and 25% of marriages see at least one incident of infidelity. These stats are simply astonishing and clearly many people struggle to search for the truth behind their partners’ reasons for disloyalty. First of all, you have to prove that it is happening; here’s how to catch your cheating spouse: 

Warning signs

They act differently and something smells fishy; you get the instinctive feeling that your partner is cheating on you. He starts working out; she starts dressing dangerously sexy. 

Drop by unannounced

Once in a while, come back home early. If they welcome you without a smile If they appear to be hiding something or act angry they could be up to something sneaky. 

• Spontaneous sex

This works for the ladies most. If you know exactly what turns your partner on and even that seems not to get their attention, then they could probably be washing up whenever they cheat and for the guys getting it up immediately and blowing a huge load, that’s not the easiest thing to do. 

Change in phone etiquette 

Your partner suddenly needs space when speaking on the phone. They either sound awkward or walk away from you to the next room. 

Also Read: First Date Etiquette: Do and Don’ts of Your First Date

Changes in schedule 

They claim to be busy working, stay out a lot of nights ‘on work’, or suddenly have lots of ‘get-togethers’  with their friends. 

Intense grooming habits 

He hits the gym more, she gets new evening perfume; sometimes they go overboard with their appearances. 

Sneaky excuses 

‘I’m driving down to the store’, ‘my friends are catching up around the corner…’, ‘I’m bored, I’m going for a drive’…, but when you offer to tag along; what do they say?

Also Read: FWB 101: 9 rules of Friends with Benefits you need to know 

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