Reading Time: 4 minutes

What Your Steering Wheel Grip Says About How You Fuck 

Believe it or not, the way you drive or hold a steering wheel might be revealing just how adventurous, or frightening, you are in bed.

Sounds ridiculous, right?

But think about it: driving in Africa is one of the few experiences that exposes your real personality.
Not the personality you show on Instagram.
Not the one you switch on at church.
The real one – raw, instinctive, unfiltered.

And according to one sex expert, Anita Fletcher, your steering grip mirrors your intimacy style more than you think.

Because when you’re behind the wheel, you’re not performing – you’re just being you.
And that is where the truth slips out.

Let’s break down the grips and what they say about your freak levels.

1. THE 10-AND-2 GRIP – THE RESPONSIBLE, WELL-MANNERED LOVER

You still hold the wheel like the driving instructor’s spirit is watching you.

You enjoy:

• Order
• Comfort
• Predictability

In bed, you’re steady.
Not boring, just structured.
You like what you like, and you deliver it consistently.
You’re the type who sets the mood, prepares everything properly, and believes in doing things “the right way.”

A lover of routines…
and surprisingly good at them.

2. THE ONE-HAND LOW GRIP – THE CALM, CONTROLLED DOMINANT

If your hand rests at the bottom of the wheel like you own the moment, you probably own the bedroom too.

This style whispers:

• Confidence
• Easy dominance
• “Relax… let me handle it” energy

You don’t show off or brag.
You just take the lead naturally.

You’re the type who knows exactly what to do – slow, sure, intentional.
A cool operator with agenda and precision.

People don’t forget you easily.

3. BOTH HANDS LOW – THE SLOW-BURN PLEASURE GIVER

You’re not rushing anywhere.
You hold the wheel like the road will wait for you, and so will your partner.

In intimacy, you are:

• Patient
• Attentive
• Deeply generous

You enjoy the journey more than the climax.
You take your time, explore slowly, and read body language like a map.

This is the lover who says “easy, we’re not in a hurry,” and means it.

4. PALMS ON TOP – THE EAGER, LOVABLE LEARNER

You grip the top of the wheel like someone trying not to mess up.

In the bedroom?
You bring that same eagerness:

• Curious
• Excited
• Ready to take instructions

You ask questions.
You want to get it right.
You genuinely want your partner to enjoy themselves.

You’re the sweet, enthusiastic type – unpolished sometimes, but with a good heart and shockingly high potential.

5. FINGERTIP STEERING – THE PLAYFUL TEASE

If you steer with just your fingertips, just know: you’re not serious about life.

You’re also not serious about sticking to one technique—because you’re the lover who loves:

• Teasing
• Experimentation
• Light touches
• Mischief

You enjoy the build-up more than the finish.
You love reactions.
You love anticipation.

Every moment with you feels like a game – dangerous, sweet, addictive.

6. THE WHITE-KNUCKLE GRIP – THE INTENSE, ALL-IN LOVER

You hold the wheel like it wronged your ancestors.

People assume it means fear, but no.
This is intensity.

In bed, you bring:

• Focus
• Heat
• Determination

You’re not a half-hearted lover – you commit fully.
Everything you feel, you feel deeply.
Everything you do, you do with purpose.

You’re the type who can overwhelm or transform someone—depending on whether they can handle you.

So… what does your grip say about your hidden freakiness?

Whether you:

• hold tight,
• cruise loose,
• tease with fingertips,
• or follow the rulebook with pride…

Just know:
Your driving habits are already telling on you.

Because when Africans drive, they reveal something raw – how they handle pressure, excitement, danger, rhythm, and control.

Exactly the same things that shape how they handle a partner.

And if you’re not sure which one you are?

Maybe let someone watch you drive.

…or come find out for themselves. Hehe…

 

 

315