How To Give Your Romantic Partner a Sensual Massage
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The Ambiance is Key
Declutter The Massaging Room
Decorate the Massaging Room

Draw a Nice Bath For Your Spouse
Rub Massaging Oil or Cream Between Your Hands
Before you begin with the massage rub a natural oil like almond jojoba and coconut oil. These oils are good options that wouldn’t irritate your partner’s skin. Start with 7.4 ml of oil and add more to your hands whenever they get dry. You should also warm it before you begin massaging.
A few drops of essential oils like lavender and peppermint added to the massaging cream or oil are a great option to adding a pleasant scent. Avoid using undiluted essential oils to massage your partner. Mix about 3-4 drops with about two tablespoons of a carrier oil first. Undiluted essential oils could be skin irritants.
Use Long Strokes With Gentle Pressure
Have your partner lying on their stomach and start working on their back and shoulders first. This is to touch their body all over and awaken their body. This will allow you to give your partner a deep-tissue massage or work on their sore muscles. Also check in with your partner to see if the amount of pressure you are using is enough. They may want a deep massage or prefer less pressure applied.
As your hands glide over their skin, count slowly in your head to 20 for every section that you massage, like the middle of the back, their left and right and shoulder and their neck as well.
Spend More Time Massaging Their Lower Back
Sit in a way that you face your partner. Put your hands on their lower back and push forward towards the middle back. Count to 20 as you massage this zone but do it for a longer period if your partner enjoys it.
If your partner is comfortable with a butt massage you could use your elbow to gently apply pressure on their butt starting at the top toward the bottom. Repeat this even on the opposite side.
Massage Their Arms and Legs to Relax Their Body
A romantic massage makes your partner feel relaxed and self-aware of their body. Gently rub your hands up and down their hands and longs with firm movements. Have them start on their stomach and massage the back of their legs. Thereafter ask them to flip over to their backside for a massage on their arms and the front of their legs. For each part of the body remember to count to twenty. The upper left and right arm, lower left and right arm should get their allotment of time.
Give Their Feet Some TLC
Add massaging cream or oil to your hands and rub the soles of their feet in large circles. Rub small circles around their ankles and massage between your partner’s toes. you might be forced to skip this part depending on how ticklish your partner feels. If your partner enjoy this part then you have to spend a great time massaging them.
Massage Their Inner Thighs With a Gentle Pressure
The inner thighs are a sensual area for both men and women. Focus on the zone between the groin and the knee. Apply gentle pressure and count to 20 on each of the sides.
How high up toward the groin area you want to take the massage depend on what you and your partner desire. If your partner gives you any non-verbal sigs like shifting from you or putting their legs together you are probably moving too high up their leg.
Take Your Time Before Massaging Sensitive Places
A romantic massage could be just that or a fantastic foreplay before getting more sexual. You can start with a gentle full body massage before you massage the sensitive areas like the groin or the butt.
Allow Your Partner To Relax After The Massage
There are high chances that your partner is going to be in a state of relaxation and wouldn’t want the lights to be switched on or the door flung open as soon as the massage is over/ Therefore, just allow them to rest and also take the opportunity to rest as well. If your partner falls into a deep sleep after the massage, so be it.
Benefits of Giving Your Partner a Romantic Massage
Builds Effortless
Intimacy in a relationship is all about being close to your partner emotionally and physically. You can build effortless intimacy with your partner just by giving them your full attention. Getting a romantic massage from your romantic partner will make you feel secure loved and pampered. Every stroke of their fingers will make you feel closer and valuable to one another.
Strengthens Bonding Between Partners
Trust is the most important part of a romantic relationship. Performing a romantic massage on your partner supercharges the trust between romantic partners. A massage session with your partner allows you to surrender entirely to your romantic partner helps to strengthen closeness and mutual trust. During the experience, you close your eyes and your partner relaxes you rhythmically by massaging the tension off from your back, neck and shoulders.
Makes You Fall In Love Again
Giving your partner a massage will help you liven the relationship between you and your romantic partner. The massage can be performed in the privacy of your house and is sensual and exciting.
The skin to skin touch as you massage your partner’s back with your hands releases the love hormone also known as the love hormone. After sometime, a romantic relationship becomes a part of the regular routine and may get boring. Trying new activities like a romantic massage can ignite the love spark all over again.
Massaging Inspires Positivity
In conclusion, a relaxing massage is one of the simplest thing a couple can perform on each other. Massaging your partner can do wonders to your romantic partner. You don’t need to be a pro to perform a sensual massage, the best you can do is create a sexy ambience by dimming lights and playing relaxed and smooth music, lighting scented candles and using scented essential oils for the sensual massage.
A romantic massage not only strengthens the bond between a romantic couple but also reduces stress for the giver and the recipient. Doing something simple and new to keep the relationship spark alive can always treat your lover with a massage puts a sexy effect on the couple and increases sexual intimacy in your relationship.
