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The Art of Pussy Fingering and How to Make Her Squirt

I honestly feel disappointed every time I hear a girl trash someone for fingering her the wrong way. Learning how to finger her is one of the best skills for anyone who wants to master the art of female orgasm. I don’t know about you, but I enjoy seeing the sensation and sexual excitement in a lady every time I use my fingers to stimulate her pussy. Fingering her is one of the best ways to give her arousal  pleasure. 

 Fingering her the right way can give you total control over how you stimulate her and send waves of orgasmic pleasure all over her body, an experience that won’t make her forget about you. If you want to master the best techniques to give her a mind-blowing orgasm with your fingers, then your answers are right here.

The Science behind Sexual Foreplay

For starters, sexual foreplay is the combination of activities done to bring a woman to arousal before sexual penetration. Mastering the art of sexual foreplay is important because it is the gateway to orgasm and squirting. Sexual foreplay sets up the mood and the tone for sexual pleasure to build inside her. Nevertheless, I am yet to find a woman who enjoys sex without foreplay.

 The simplest and easiest way to initiate foreplay is to tease her by talking dirty to her. Tell her how hot she is, how turned on you are, and how you’re going to give it to her. In the bedroom, women crave passion. The more passionate, confident, and present you are, the more this rubs off on her, and she begins to feel the same way.

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Preparing to Finger Her

When fingering her, it is important to start from the outside and the in. If you go directly for the vagina, your partner is unlikely to have a nice experience because sexual arousal requires time. Not forgetting that the outside of the female sexual organ is extremely sensitive.

 It might not seem important, but make sure your fingers are nicely groomed before using them to finger her. Of course, her pussy is a highly sensitive area with more nerve endings than any other part of her body, so if you scratch her, it’s game over. Simply make sure your fingers are neat.

You’ll need to wet her pussy before inserting a finger, and you’ll want to raise her excitement to the highest possible degree before inserting a finger. With her underwear still on, rub the outside of her pussy. While some women can get easily wet, one can also use lube for a better experience.

 Suck on her ear while you’re doing it. Tell her how turned on she is and how you love it when it’s wet. Slip your hand slowly under her pantyhose—touch, tease, and escalate is the ideal formula. One step forward, two steps back. As her arousal rises and her pussy becomes wet, start gently massaging her clitoral area from side to side. Take a step back and kiss her on the body.

 The idea is to raise her arousal as much as possible by turning her on, gently caressing her clitoral area, kissing her entire body, and talking nasty until she’s virtually ready to explode with pleasure when you insert your fingers. It’s better to start with just one finger. Go in slowly and then pull back. As you walk in, kiss and suck on her ear and mumble something nasty to her.

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Fingering Techniques to Stimulate the G-Spot

You might prefer to start with only one finger and slowly put it inside her with your palm facing the roof. If the pussy is not wet enough, it is advisable to use lubrication and make sure the lube is at the proper body temperature.

 There are three basic gestures you can do with your finger(s) to stimulate her g-spot.

1.  The first (and most crucial) motion is the come here gesture. Curled upwards, the fingers move in and out of your palm. This is what frequently causes her to have a squirting orgasm.
2.  The windshield wiper motion is the second. Curled fingers are moved from side to side across the g-spot, effectively wiping it. Your fingers will point to her left hip first, then to her right hip.
3. The barrel roll inside her is the third move. Make a circular motion with the tips of your fingers within the vagina.

 To stimulate her g-spot, make the three motions with one or two fingers.

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Giving Her Double Pleasure

This is the act of massaging and stimulating the clitoris and the g-spot at the same time in order to offer her intense and pleasurable orgasms and make her squirt faster. While at it, find a rhythm that she likes and stick to it.

Increase your speed as she becomes more turned on; when you notice her g-spot growing, it will place additional pressure on your fingers. This is a sign that she is completely turned on and ready to start cuddling. Maintain the rhythm or slightly increase the speed and pressure, with the come-hither motion hooking around the g-spot.

If you find it difficult to make diverse motions with both hands, you can use a vibrator(BDSM toy) on her clitoral area.

Another way to give her double pleasure is to eat her pussy while you finger her. Your mouth, and especially your tongue, can be a powerful tool for female orgasms. You’ll need to learn how to stimulate her clitoral area with your tongue while using your fingers to take your fingering game to the next level.

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Making Her Squirt

The most basic approach to making her ejaculate is to softly push your two middle fingers within her, palm facing up. Take your first two fingers (make sure they’re wet with saliva or lube) and softly move them back and forth against her clitoral area. Start moving her two middle fingers up and down (not in and out) with the tips curled upwards towards her abdomen. This should stimulate her g-spot directly.

You can apply this advanced fingering method tonight. Slide your hand beneath her butt, just far enough so that your thumb may reach inside her pussy while she is resting on her back. Insert your thumb gently inside her pussy while erotically caressing her clitoral area with your tongue. The thumb is slightly thicker and stronger than a finger, so downward pressure may feel unfamiliar to her. When paired with the tongue, this is something she’ll love and want you to do to her again and again.

 One can combine the different fingering techniques to come up with a perfect technique that works for her. If you’re good with massage, you can use it to spice it up.

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Summary

Giving a woman the best fingering of her life is an art. This requires an understanding of the physical and emotional terrain of female arousal. Unlock her orgasmic code with these simple techniques and watch her squirt with pleasure as you give her the best finger fuck. Watch out for my next tip on how to give her a vaginal massage.

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