Reading Time: 4 minutes

Sex during your wedding night

They say the wedding is for the woman so what is a man supposed to get on his wedding day? Fucking mind-blowing sex if you ask me. I mean finally you got a coochie with your name on it, right? I know nowadays guys love come with stay relationships and have had countless sex before deciding to tie the knot and walking down the isle. 

Many couples want to make their wedding night memorable and one way to add a little spice to the mix is to have great sex. Sex on your wedding night, however, is not a walk in the park and there seems to be too much pressure around this particular night- your first night alone together. My Nim Notty research suggests that this is because most couples live together even before marriage. The sex is good but on this night no one would want to settle for that. No way! We out here banging like I’m trying to love your ass to your chest. After all no one will care who is in room 14A until I request for room service, so this night has to be perfect.

But here’s some good news- you don’t have to make your wedding night perfect, just make it your own. 

Also Read: How To Date a Married Man Without Getting Hurt

I know you got high expectations, hoping for multiple orgasms on a bed of petals, but making this night memorable may need just the little things. 

Once you got the stage set, then it’s time to explore these Honeymoon Sex Positions:

Here Cums The Bride 

Fill yourselves with anticipation for this special night, kiss each other and explore each other’s bodies until you can’t take more of the teasing. This technique ensures you keep each other’s sex desire at its peak. Get yourselves semi-close to orgasm then stop (getting too close will just be frustrating). Fall asleep spooning and appreciating each other’s junk. 

The Lotus 

This is a great position for increasing your arousal as you listen to your partner moan in your ears. It involves wrapping your legs around each other in a sitting position. Get your arms around each other and listen to your partner respond to the pleasure. 

The Cowgirl

For couples who are newly wedded and have had no sexual intimacy before marriage, a major nightmare is discovering that your partner has vaginismus. This is a condition that causes excruciating pain in the vagina upon penetration. To avoid this pain when vaginismus is suspected, let the woman be in control. Letting her control the pace and depth of penetration will make her comfortable enough to reach her peak, at her own time and pace. 

The Happily(Ending) Ever After

While you give your partner a full body massage. Yes, she needs that, a long day in heels and of course keeping her stature in check takes a toll on her. Rub her down and make sure some special sweet-smelling candles are lit just beside her. Gently stretch your hands above her head and slide, all the way up that juiciness. 

The Bedded Bliss

This is a special technique for partners who have not experienced sex before. Have your partner lie on the length of your body, chest to chest, legs to legs. Get her legs wrapped around your waist and this will help against a too-enthusiastic pounding. 

Under Arrest

Gently cuff your partner above the head, in a position as if he is resting his head on his hands. Vibrators can be magic if she is in that position, for the man using lube while fondling his junk will definitely get him in the mood. Here’s the catch- you have to wait until they really really want it, and keep teasing. 

The Butterfly 

Woman on her back, with her hips spread on the edge of the bed. The man, while standing, penetrates. This is a great position for deeper penetration and explosive orgasms. 

The Waterfall

The blood rushing to your head will give you mind-blowing sensations upon orgasm. The woman must move to the edge of the bed and lie back with head and shoulders on a soft mat on the floor (make it extremely comfortable for her)

Butter Churner 

Now, this is not for everyone out there. Flexibility is crucial. Gently spread her legs above her head as she lies on the bed. That’s not all there is to this- both of you have to e flexible, squat over her, and dip your dick in and out of her. Start off lightly and keep teasing. 

The Anvil

Well, since I have got some sexperience, lemme share this last position with anyone else who is not as flexible as I am. The anvil is simply missionary style, but with a little spice added to it. The woman underneath has her legs on her partner’s shoulders, meaning deeper penetration. Remember to place a pillow under your partner to keep them comfortable. 

Also Read: BedroomTips: What Each Zodiac Sign Is Like In Bed

The Basics 

Keep flirting with your partner, fill your room with fragrance, set the night to music, and carry your best toys and lingerie. 

 

5795