Maybe Girl: Here are Surefire Signs That He Won’t Marry You.

Nobody wants to waste their energy and time on a dead end. Nobody wants to spend their years with a person who just isn’t it or was never on the same page. If you are in a relationship that you would like to lead you to marriage, there are things you should observe that will tell you whether the outcome you are looking for is actually on the way. To help you gain perspective here are definitive signs that he won’t marry you :

Maybe he already proposed to you but when you keep talking about the wedding he delays it all the time. There’s a high chance that he proposed to you to get you to keep quiet and get off his back. As much as it sounds harsh and brutal, it’s very true. Why would your fiancee delay the wedding further if he anticipates to marry you?

Usually, a man who doesn’t intend to commit to you won’t give you a straightforward answer when you bring up the subject of marriage. If he addresses it in a jokey way and you don’t have an idea where your partner stands in the relationship, consider that a very huge red flag. Some of the common responses you may get when you talk about marriage are: ‘He needs more time’ ‘Can we talk about this another time?”  “I’m stressed right now I can’t think about it now,”

If you haven’t met his family and friends after several months of dating, consider that a huge red flag. If he introduces you to his friends and family, but it turns out that you don’t really know them, that’s less of a red flag but still a red flag.

If he doesn’t invite you to family functions or include you when he’s hanging out with close friends that means he’s not that invested in you.

Being in a healthy relationship involves being able to handle conflict. Handling misunderstandings won’t always be perfect as it may be messier than others but both partners are on the same page. Both partners should be willing to work together to reach a resolution, they shouldn’t go into combat like enemies rather they pair to deal with the problem, not the two against each other.

Conflicts are a means to finding a resolution, not a chance to tear each other down. If your partner completely shuts you down when any conflict arises or blames you for a problem threatening to break up with you, it’s a huge sign he’s not ready to marry you.

If you mention to him that you might want to go back to school, find another job or relocate to another city and he doesn’t show concern, it’s because he doesn’t see you as a long-term partner hence those changes won’t affect him in any way. He also refrains from talking to you about his future plans and whenever he does so those plans don’t include you.