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Why your sex life is fucked up

In a perfect world, your sex life is amazing and you never fail to rise to the occasion. Your partner fulfills you and your bedroom is full of fireworks day and night but we don’t live in a perfect world, do we?

Your sex sucks and your relationship which started off with steamy fuck sessions is now dead as a dodo. You can’t help but reminisce the good old days when your man would lift you from the bed and bend you over the kitchen sink just when you thought he was done. Fast forward, you guys are never awake past 9 pm and even your cat is accustomed to sleeping in bed with you since all you get are snorgasms.  

Sex is meant to be pleasurable for both you and your partner. However, most men don’t get the approach or the technique quite right and that is why Nim Notty has dedicated himself and done more research on some of the habits that are hurting your sex life:

• Thinking every woman’s body is the same 

This is a habit mostly done by inexperienced young men. I learned this over time; sex is not a one-size-fits-all operation, no pun intended. Each and every woman’s body is different. What turns one on might actually turn another off.  Tailor your sexual technique specifically for that woman you are with and pay attention to what her body responds to. 

• Watching too much porn 

Notice what I have just said, ‘too much’. Nim Notty doesn’t believe that you should not watch the best porn at all. Some, and I insist, some, good African porn or whatever you like watching is healthy. But here are some of the problems with watching porn; It sets false expectations in your mind on what sex should be. Not every woman looks like that, is going to do that or, haha, sounds like that when you touch her. Too much porn also makes you numb to arousal, meaning you’ll have to do too much to get a good erection.

• Skipping Foreplay 

Yeah, I get it. You are already excited and want to get down to it. But you need to keep in mind that for women sex starts in the mind. Foreplay is necessary. Not skipping foreplay makes your job a whole lot easier and it makes her more in the mood and much more readily of reaching her orgasm.

Also Read: 5 signs she is in the mood for sex

• Taking your smartphone to bed 

This could be your fault or your partner’s fault. Bringing these devices to bed distracts you from your partner and reduces the chances of you guys having quality time. It reduces intimacy and makes it harder for you guys to connect. 

Hard Truths by Nim Notty 

The bed is primarily for two things; sex and sleep. 

• Lack of Quality and consistent sleep 

Your body needs sleep to repair and rejuvenate. Lack of sleep leads to low energy levels and could even make you have less interest in sex. It could also make you irritable, reduce your testosterone levels and lead to a lot of stress. 

• Stress

Difficulty in dealing with stress can have a direct effect on your body, mentally and physically. Not managing stress gives you fatigue and makes you tense. 

• Drinking too much alcohol

Once again, notice what I have just said, ‘too much alcohol’. Of course, a little alcohol gets us in the mood. Too much reduces testosterone production and can even numb your dick making it hard to have an ejaculation.

• Poor Dietary Habits 

Eating plenty of fast foods and processed foods can lead to a decrease in testosterone production. This reduces energy levels and your blood flow, you know, that thing that is necessary for you to get an erection. It also leads to decreased sensitivity, meaning you won’t enjoy sex as much. 

Also Read: Gari kubwa! Utamu wa Mwanamke mwenye mwili mkubwa (BBW) wakati wa kujamiana

• Erectile Dysfunction(ED) 

This is an embarrassing topic for men who experience it. Most guys brush it off or blame it on themselves. Remember, it is always good to seek Whiskey Dick Medication. 

• Doing the same things, same moves, all the time 

This makes long-term relationships end up as yawntastic. Being in a long-term relationship or marriage means you guys probably have a routine, but here’s the thing- that leads to the most boring sex life. Same old foreplay, same old positions, weak results. Be spontaneous, always!

Stop these 10 habits and actualize your fantasy every time you fuck with your girlfriend, wife, or Exotic Escorts Africa 

Bottomline 

A healthy life includes a healthy sex life. 

 

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