Dating: Looks are not everything

Sometimes, women decide to go out with guys just because they look good. However, dating a man who hasn’t got the “look” has its merits too.

Here are reasons Why Dating an unattractive is Better than dating an handsome man.

Women who date unattractive men are known to be happier

Girls who date unattractive men are known to be happier. This study reported that women who were dating unattractive guys were happier than those who were dating the hot guys.

Guys who date attractive ladies are happy too

Guys usually have no inferiority complex if they are less attractive than the women they are dating. This, in my opinion, is a win-win case, because men love showing off their hot girlfriends. Perhaps it’s because many guys are more into money and success than how they look.

There are few women to fight off

Attractive guys are flirted with on a daily. It’s hard to be with an attractive guy because some girls can be so shameless and even try flirting with him in your presence. I guess it’s because they say, “Your future husband may be making the mistake of his life, so grab him fast”, and some ladies, unfortunately, subscribe to this thought. 

The temptation to give in to other females might be too much for an attractive boyfriend which can strain a relationship. However, if you have an unattractive man, you won’t have to deal with other ladies fighting for his attention or openly flirting with him. So the fewer females to fight off, the more secure your relationship.

An unattractive man puts in more effort

Unattractive guys are known to put more effort into the relationship. I say this because some guys never think a girl might look their way, let alone be interested in them. Because of that, they tend to appreciate their woman a lot. He will do anything and everything to impress her and make her happy and not mess the “living dream” up. 

Unattractive guys can offer great sex too

Well, unattractive men have to be great somewhere, if not in looks. This is because they know they have to compensate for their lack of good looks. This way, they can get a girl to stay if she finally looks his way. So, he may have spent time researching all the ways to satisfy his girl in bed. 

Most ugly guys are intellectual

Imagine being shunned out of the cute guy’s group while growing up. Guys in this situation would definitely work on their confidence to get themselves recognized. That’s why most unattractive dudes are really intelligent and can hold intellectual conversations. 

On the other hand, an empty-headed pretty boy is more likely to cheat on you. It’s better to have an unattractive man who can explain the stock market and the many complexities of various disciplines to you?

There is a popular joke on social media where people say they want a partner who is intellectual because when the kids bring homework, someone is going to have to help them. If your spouse happens to be as unintelligent as you are, well, the kid’s teacher will assume the parents are the cause, which can be quite embarrassing—even though you two make the perfect couple.

Women dating such guys are accepted for who they are

Imagine being shunned out of the cute guy’s group while growing up. Guys in this situation would definitely work on their confidence to get themselves recognized. That’s why most unattractive dudes are really intelligent and can hold intellectual conversations. 

On the other hand, an empty-headed pretty boy is more likely to cheat on you. It’s better to have an unattractive man who can explain the stock market and the many complexities of various disciplines to you?

There is a popular joke on social media where people say they want a partner who is intellectual because when the kids bring homework, someone is going to have to help them. If your spouse happens to be as unintelligent as you are, well, the kid’s teacher will assume the parents are the cause, which can be quite embarrassing—even though you two make the perfect couple.

Assured masculinity

It’s obvious that men who are unattractive are assured of their masculinity, which is quite hot. It’s possible they look the way they do because they have not invested much into their appearance— like having skincare routines, shaving, or going to the gym on the regular.

Deserved love and attention

No guy shows love like an unattractive one. This type of guy really is the embodiment of inner beauty because most unattractive guys are known to be very kind. He will pamper his girlfriend, spoil her rotten and place the world at her feet. 

Is it like pulling teeth getting him to spend time with you?

The key to solving is understanding men on a much deeper emotional level. The number #1 factor that causes men to behave this way is actually relatively easy to change with a few subtle things you can say to him.