Singer Tems : Most Men Have no Agenda but to Penetrate

Nigerian singer Temilade Openiyi alias Tems has shared that she has never fallen in love before. The 28-year-old woman, however, shared that she would love to experience the feeling one day.

Sharing this on the latest episode of the Flow With Korty Show, Tems stated that contrary to the saying, “love is blind” for her love should be experienced with eyes wide open.

Tems was also asked by the host, Korty EO, if she had ever fallen in love, she responded by saying that: sure, many guys’ motive is to have sex. Tems shared, “A lot of guys, they are very obvious…there is no agenda but to penetrate.

She explained, “I haven’t been in love. Loving someone for me is more of ‘I see you and I still want to be in your life. Even though you annoy me sometimes, I choose you and I choose you.’

I would like to be in love, to experience something deep but really real not blind. I don’t believe that love is blind, I think if you really love someone you’re loving them with your eyes open,”

Tems added, “I feel like people get infatuated and they call that falling in love. If you’re blind that is not love. Love is when you’ve seen the person, their yansh is open and you’re like ‘I still want it. I still want that.’ I want someone to see my goods and be like, ‘Yeah, give me some of that,”