Reasons Why Your Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Have Sex With You

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You have a woman by your side who is intelligent, funny, thoughtful, caring and everything you wanted in your woman. However there’s one glitch, she refuses to take things to the next level in the bedroom. Most men have found themselves in such a situation and don’t have a clue how to negotiate it. Is it possible for someone to stay in a consensual relationship without the expectations of sex? Will asking for sex make you seem like an inconsiderate person? Here are reasons why she won’t have sex with you:

She is Afraid of Sex

Sexually inexperienced women may be frightened of the idea of having sex. Some women may confess that prior to their first sexual encounter, the thought of an erect penis entering their vagina made them cringe in pain. Dating such a woman may take a lot of patience and convincing to let go of her fears in bed and agree to have sex with you.

Your Woman Is Asexual By Nature

Some women are just asexual by nature. This is not to mean that they don’t enjoy your company. Asexual women want the benefits of a relationship. They want to enjoy your affection, your comfort and company but without the hassles of sex.

She’s On Her Monthly Periods

She’s unsure how you will react to the sight of her period flow. She knows that you may faint at the sight of real blood. Therefore she wants to spare you the horror and defer sex until her monthly periods are over.

She’s Afraid You’ll Judge Her

We live in a patriarchal society that’s still judging women based on their sexual purity. She knows that being sexually forward might win her unsavoury titles like slut or loose. Worse is that she’s afraid you may value her less or think less of her. Society has told her that good girls don’t have sex before marriage and that no man can respect a lady who does.

There’s Lack Of Intimacy

Women say they avoid sex due to a lack of intimacy in the relationship. For women, feeling connected to you is crucial. Research has it that women have trouble reaching orgasm if they are not physically aroused. Therefore, you can’t just push the right buttons physically. She has to feel mentally turned on to have sex with you.

She’s Feeling Too Tired

A survey of 2000 women aged between 30-80 showed that a quarter of women reported avoiding sexual intercourse since they were too tired. A 2010 poll by the National Sleep Foundation also found that married couples living together were tired of frequent sex 21-26% of the time.

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