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Signs she is an escort

These days there’s always the danger that your beautiful girlfriend is an escort, and is out to con you. Loyalty from escorts is basically reserved for the highest bidder, and if you fail to bid consistently you’ll lose her in the end. You can spy on her, keep tabs on her and all she is saying and doing but that is not the kind of relationship you want. 

Asking whether your partner is an escort is a delicate discussion. Approach tactically, as your suspicions may be wrong. Consider why you feel suspicious- does she have too many male friends or are there other factors that do not add up? This will help you ensure that the issue is not jealousy, insecurities, or another issue stemming from emotions. 

If you met her through an Escort Agency, then you have your answer. But if not, then you may need to be on the lookout for the following signs;

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Regularly Irregular Hours 

Working hours are often dependent on their availability. ‘Busy’ is the codeword for booked or reserved. She never picks up calls at night and she has numbers that are not saved calling her always. Sometimes she is needed ‘urgently’ and no matter what plans you made you may have to cancel them. You should also watch out if she insists on leaving immediately after sex. 

She despises poverty and men with low-paying jobs

Notice how she treats the taxi driver, the garbage collector, and the apartment cleaner. She easily gets annoyed and has no patience for them. Even though women are hypergamous by nature (marry men of a higher caste than them), most women don’t despise poor men as long as he is working to earn something. Escorts however see no ‘customer’ potential in such men. 

Its become routine to ask for something before and after sex

An experienced escort is very cunning in his/her dealings. When you are first identified, you will get frequent sex, whenever, however, you want it and without asking for anything in return. Once you get hooked, they gradually reduce the fun so that you start begging for it. Sex now becomes a reward in your relationship. She asks for food first and at times alcohol or even some weed. 

Frequently uses sarcasm and explicit words to describe her friends or women she doesn’t like. 

‘Malaya’, ‘changudoa’, ‘whore’, ‘ashawo’, are just some of the names you will hear in a brothel if ever you came across prostitutes quarreling, or in a fight. This is just a way of projecting onto others what she has done and been called before by others. The sarcasm includes dick size and ejaculation time, which she uses to pick on men. This is typical escort jargon to manipulate you. Shame is no big deal and she is not shy to change outfits in front of her siblings or parent, and even her mother!

Known by multiple names and has multiple contacts

She always has different phone numbers for work and some for personal use. They also have multiple WhatsApp accounts. Her block list is huge – and you’ll probably end up there. You call her Sheila, I call her Abby, my friend knows her as Melissa. These are just some of her work alias. Exotic Escorts Africa does not allow escorts to use their real names to protect their identity. The images, however, have to be real for escorts to gain the trust of clients. 

Constantly reminds you of the things she has done for you. 

‘After all I have done for you?…’ Sounds familiar, right? In this case, apart from the pair of socks she bought, she is referring to the sex she provided for you. What else could she provide than her in-demand-special services? A cunning, more experienced escort will pretend to have trust issues so that you do more for her. 

Criticizes girls dating men below them in social and economic status. 

The phrase, ‘why on earth would a fine girl like you date such a low life’ is quite common. In the escort business, her kind of business, being with a poor man is a waste of resources.  She rates men based on social status and influence (disregarding character). She knows your number plate from date one and no matter how late you came home she still remembers your place and everything that’s in there. 

Obsessed about money and is very materialistic

The classic escort mindset- talks money, thinks money, eats money, sleeps money. Money opens up her legs and gives her moneygarsms, much more sensational than your big dick. You may notice that she also owns plenty of lingerie than any woman you’ve met before. Despite this, her cologne is cheap. 

Does the most to keep looking young 

From tanning to manicures and pedicures, to working out and spa treatment. Despite growing in age, you also realize her outfits get shorter and she has more colorful wigs, short skirts, sexy dresses, and high heels than when you met. Shopping will always be on another level. 

The first one to ask for a Condom 

Not that it’s wrong but if she insists on testing every month and is still the first to ask for a condom then that is one red flag that you should not avoid. 

Bottomline 

Your girl may not be an escort by deed, but she could still be an escort in mind. If you aren’t married yet, use these signs to help you determine what’s best for your relationship. Most women are casual about prostitution, but what must be understood is that a woman who can separate sex from love and commitment isn’t really the type you would seek loyalty from. 

Let her be an Exotic Africa Escort or find yourself a woman who suits you. Remember that you can’t turn a whore into a housewife! 

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