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Thinking of trying anal?

In recent years, anal sex has gained popularity and today its only gay people but heterosexual couples who are now feeding from behind. Whether it is a passing fad or is it here to stay only time will tell.

So as woman if your partner hasn’t asked you for anal yet but you want to be ready when he asks for it or on your own decide to try it to see what’s the big deal about it then you might want to know familiarize yourself with basic anal sex tips. 

ALWAYS use lube

This is the first rule of anal there’s no two ways about it. Want to enjoy anal have some lube and add some more lube. 

Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own lubricant therefore you need external lube to make the whole experience more comfortable and enjoyable.  Remember you can use warm lube to help heighten pleasure and make you even more comfortable in the moment.

Breathe…..Relax

Have you ever seen football fans watching a game? During the game they get so tense so much that their ass just goes rock hard it will break a whole pin in two. Kenyans even have a saying for it, they call it Kukaza rasa.

When it comes to anal sex complete relaxation is key literally to loosen up and open your anal sphincter. Having sex with a tight ass is painful to say the least so relax. You can try something like deep breathing or a relaxing massage with your partner to make sure both you and your bum muscles are ready to receive what’s coming their way.

What goes in your butthole doesn’t go in your other holes

I know it sounds silly but yes never put something that was in your butt in your mouth or vagina. Apart from the taste (yuck) it is to avoid any lingering sexually transmitted diseases.

Have a safe word

Being its a new experience and you are still learning your way it is recommended you have a safe word to say the second you start feeling pain or get uncomfortable. Having a safe word will also ensure your boundaries are not violated.

Take it slow

Your butt hole no matter how much lube you apply will never be as wet as your pussy so caution is key. Approach your first anal experience like testing the depth of a river for the first time and you know what they say its only a fool who tests the depth of a river with two feet.

Before inserting his whole dick let him try with a finger, or a toy and start slowly with just the tip before inserting anything any deeper.

Also Read: African celebrities who love to feed from behind (Anal sex)

Goes without saying….

Use a condom

Just because you won’t fall pregnant, it doesn’t mean you should go raw or  nyama kwa nyama as Kenyans love to say.

A condom will come handy in preventing you from catching sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and like we said earlier what went inside your ass can’t go directly to your pussy so no anal to vaginal penetration with the same condom. If you want him to bang your pussy have him ditch the condom first and put on a new one before fucking your wet pussy.

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