Why Do Women Pay For Sex?

Most people tend to think that only men are willing to pay for sex. In the past decade, women have been looking for exciting sexual experiences and are willing to pay for them. Women have considered it to be easier and more convenient than going out to bars or clubs. Most women do not want to be found out and prefer to keep it a secret.

 

 A good number of career women with high incomes are seeking out sexual experiences with no strings attached since a number of them are too busy to consider relationships. Others have suffered divorce and or painful breakups. As much as dating is a daunting experience for many, these women miss sex and may want a sexual massage or just to be intimate with somebody.

 

In a recent study led by Dr Sarah Kingston of Lancaster University and also co-led by Dr Hammond at Manchester Metropolitan University, researchers spoke to 21 escorts in the UK who were paid for their sexual experiences. According to their earlier findings, women who pay for sex are from different backgrounds and ages. There’s also a common trend that most of these women are in their thirties or forties.

 

 

Researchers also found out that women in relationships also pay for sexual services for the excitement or to spice up their relationships with their partners.

The study stipulates that women who pay for sex take control of the sexual experience. A number of them assert their sexual desires in advance while others prefer a more natural unfolding of events starting with a drink or erotic massage first.

 

The team of researchers reveal that some of the participants say most of the women who buy sex are professional people, some of whom may simply want pleasurable sexual experiences. Paying an escort is considered a way of ensuring discretion, as opposed to other ways of securing sexual encounters. The team discloses, “In some instances, women were very specific about the services they required. This came across in some interviews with escorts who had one-to-one bookings with women. Escorts relay how women with specific requests email their expectations ahead of the meeting.”

 

According to Maurice Matheka a relationship and sexual psychology expert based in Kenya, women who pay for sex are not trying to leave their husbands. Such women are just looking for a stimulus that they miss out on at their homes. Maurice further asserts that some women find sex at home to be boring and obligatory since most of it is for procreation purposes.

 

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