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How Your Guy’s Porn Preferences Reveal His Love for You

One thing that’s literally on the bottom of my “give-a-damn” list is the porn search history of a dude I’m vibing with, whether we’re dating or just having a good time. Now, don’t get me wrong, it’s not like I’m playing the “I don’t want to know” card to dodge some sort of sex-shame bullet. If you feel like sharing that playlist with me, shoot your shot, I’m all ears! But let me lay down the law here (and trust me, it’s the gospel truth): we’re all entitled to our own private party sessions, no matter what our relationship status screams.

And oh, don’t even get me started on the whole “watching porn equals cheating” charade. Sorry (not sorry) to burst your bubble if you’re in that camp. Alright, let’s talk facts. I’ll keep this spotlight on the dudes for now, sometimes, and I mean actively, go on a treasure hunt for porn stars who bear an uncanny resemblance to that special someone they’re dating, hooking up with, or crushing on. Now, don’t ask me how I stumbled upon this little tidbit of info. You know how it goes in this age of… well, let’s just say dubiously sourced info. TikTok, my friends, that’s where this nugget dropped into my lap.

Honestly, you might’ve guessed it already. But hey, I’m all about sharing those unexpected gems. So, guess where I stumbled upon this little tidbit? Yep, TikTok, where I soak in the delightful dish of content showcasing women’s unfiltered thoughts on their partners’ porno preferences. And let me tell you, this revelation? It’s like that “aha!” moment, with an oddly wholesome twist.

Now, we’re living in a world that’s got a certain flavor of mono-normativity and sex negativity, right? And typically, they train us gals to see our dudes’ little rendezvous with adult entertainment as some kind of showdown. But here’s the kicker, the fact that the guys we’re getting cozy with are actually tuning into videos that mirror us? It’s like a sweet little slice of affirmation, don’t you think? Just goes to show, it’s not always what it seems on the surface.

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Alright, let’s break it down, sister. It’s a mix of “maybe, maybe not,” but I’ve got a hunch it’s leaning towards the “heck yeah.” Picture this: dude’s scrolling through those saucy vids, and who does he envision? You, girl. He’s got the hots for you, and he’s bringing that fire into his fantasies. Now, tell me, isn’t that pretty darn awesome?

Now, here’s the scoop from Shaun Miller, PhD—philosopher extraordinaire in all things sex, love, and relationships. Brace yourself, because this is the real talk: maybe, just maybe, your stunning self ticks all the boxes on his attraction checklist. Think about it—you’re his knockout new girlfriend, and he’s got a type, and guess what? You’re fitting that description like a custom-made glove. Whether it’s those short, pixie-cut blondes with tattoo sleeves and a sporty vibe or something equally intriguing, you’ve become his muse, babe.

But hold on, we’re not done yet. Here’s another angle—maybe you’ve become his new type. Yup, that’s right. He’s not just into you, he’s crafted a whole new category just for you. See, girl? You’re rewriting the script of his desires. Now, doesn’t that light a sassy little spark?

Of course, you’re not alone if you’re concerned that your partner might jack off to women or sex acts that in no way resemble you or what you do in bed together. However there is no need for concern. What if, instead, you discovered that he had an insatiable erotic appetite and is open to a wide range of stimuli?

Listen up, honey, ’cause I’m about to lay it straight. You, me, and everyone else we’ve all got a VIP pass to our own private party in the bedroom, and that includes you, darling. Now, here’s the deal: some people use their stash of steamy vids and wild fantasies as a canvas to paint the wild side they might not show in the daylight. Others? They’re all about keeping it real, making those dreams align with their real-world escapades.

But here’s the kicker, and you better believe it: how much your partner dives into their one-person party session, whether it’s starring you or someone who looks like you—guess what? It’s got zilch to do with how they feel about you or how wild things get when you’re together. Got that? So, don’t even entertain those doubts. Your satisfaction levels? Off the charts. Their attraction to you? Through the roof. So, let’s keep our eyes on the prize and let them do their solo thing while we keep on rockin’ together, alright?

 

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