5 Common Relationship Mistakes Every Young Man Should Avoid
We always hear women’s old cliche “I love bad boys”, but this doesn’t necessarily refer to men who treat women like garbage. Even gorgeous men with big dicks and well-stuffed wallets can’t get away with this for a long time. Treating a woman mean, pushes them into another man’s arms. Remember, the next man is just a call or swipe away. Here are some relationship mistakes you should avoid:
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Avoiding Communication
This isn’t entirely about the chit-chat you have with your woman on a daily to check up on her and confirm how things are progressing at her office. It’s about having a heart-to-heart conversation where you seem eager to hear from her.
You should be a good listener first to make her feel connected to you. Sounding like you are bored while still having a communication with her is a clear sign that your mindsets don’t align.
Using Selfish Sex to Solve Your Issues
Some men tend to believe that if they are loaded with cash and are good in bed, any relationship problem will just self-resolve. However, apart from the few insecure and vulnerable women, this isn’t the gospel truth. If your woman is genuinely in love with you, she’ll seek a soulful connection when having sex with you.
Using sex as a tool to solve relationship problems makes it mechanical rather than pleasurable. In addition to that, some guys are clueless regarding what their women’s sexual desires are or they just don’t want to find out. Such a perspective or approach can be damaging to any relationship.
Begging for a Relationship
Acting desperate in a relationship is an unattractive quality. When you beg someone to love you or to be in a relationship with you, you set a foundation for an unequal partnership from the onset. It’s important to recognize your value and know that a healthy relationship involves commitment and mutual interest.
If you have to beg someone for their commitment or attention, it could be time to re-evaluate the situation and consider moving on and find someone who desires and values you in equal measure.
Tolerating a Woman Who Cheats
Trust and loyalty are the foundation of any healthy and stable relationship. If you are in a relationship with a partner who cheats, it’s a clear indication that your partner lacks respect for you and the relationship.
Remaining in such a relationship may cause emotional damage and low self-esteem. In as much as it can be difficult to walk away especially when your emotions are deeply involved, it’s important to value yourself and demand loyalty and respect from your partner.
Trying Too Hard to Please Your Partner
A healthy relationship is built on mutual understanding, respect and support where both of the partner’s needs are met. In as much as you want to make your partner feel valued and respected, putting their needs before your own all the time can make you lose your happiness and identity. Sacrificing your happiness to please your partner can lead to hatred and a lack of self-worth.
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