{"id":6427,"date":"2021-10-25T15:48:26","date_gmt":"2021-10-25T12:48:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/?p=6427"},"modified":"2021-10-25T22:47:18","modified_gmt":"2021-10-25T19:47:18","slug":"the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference\/","title":{"rendered":"The Settler ou The Reacher\u00a0: lequel \u00eates-vous en couple et quelle est la foutue diff\u00e9rence\u00a0?"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Temps de lecture: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 4<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_84 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Contenu des pages<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a210343cebbd\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Basculer<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a210343cebbd\"  aria-label=\"Basculer\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference\/#So_which_side_of_your_relationship_is_buttered\" >Alors, quel c\u00f4t\u00e9 de votre relation est beurr\u00e9 ?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-2' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference\/#How_I_met_Your_Mother\" >Comment j&#039;ai rencontr\u00e9 votre m\u00e8re?\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference\/#Yes_Opposites_attract\" >Oui! Les contraires s&#039;attirent<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference\/#Nim_Notty_Chronicles\" >Chroniques de Nim Notty<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference\/#How_To_Keep_The_Balance\" >Comment garder l&#039;\u00e9quilibre\u00a0<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference\/#Understand_What_you_need_from_a_Partner_and_from_the_Relationship\" >Comprendre ce dont vous avez besoin d&#039;un partenaire et de la relation<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference\/#Understand_your_role_in_Keeping_the_Balance\" >Comprenez votre r\u00f4le dans le maintien de l\u2019\u00e9quilibre.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference\/#Address_it_as_soon_as_you_see_it\" >R\u00e9pondez-y d\u00e8s que vous le voyez.<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/the-settler-or-the-reacher-which-one-are-you-in-a-relationship-and-whats-the-damn-difference\/#Bottomline\" >Conclusion\u00a0<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"So_which_side_of_your_relationship_is_buttered\"><\/span>Alors, quel c\u00f4t\u00e9 de votre relation est beurr\u00e9 ?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>L\u2019un des plus grands mensonges dans les relations est que les deux partenaires sont \u00e9gaux et contr\u00f4lent donc \u00e9galement la relation. Je suis d\u00e9sol\u00e9 d&#039;\u00e9clater ta bulle mais c&#039;est une arnaque fils.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Oubliez ce que disent les experts en amour ou ce que vos poteries de telenovela pr\u00e9f\u00e9r\u00e9es, un <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/dating-marriage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> n&#039;est pas toujours un partenariat 50\/50. Un partenaire m\u00e8ne la danse tandis que l\u2019autre fait les ench\u00e8res. Ne vous m\u00e9prenez pas cependant en disant que c&#039;est automatiquement l&#039;homme qui tire les ficelles, aucune femme n&#039;a aussi ses mani\u00e8res et mon gar\u00e7on ! ils ont des comp\u00e9tences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Dans la plupart des relations, vous constaterez qu&#039;un seul partenaire <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">est fou tandis que l&#039;autre a tendance \u00e0 \u00eatre cool. Quand l\u2019un est un maniaque du contr\u00f4le, vous pouvez parier que l\u2019autre est plus compr\u00e9hensif et plus facile.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_I_met_Your_Mother\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comment j&#039;ai rencontr\u00e9 votre m\u00e8re?\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6428\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/reaher-settler-300x150.jpg\" alt=\"Reacher-Settler Theory\" width=\"320\" height=\"160\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/reaher-settler-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/reaher-settler-1024x512.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/reaher-settler-768x384.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/reaher-settler.jpg 1300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00cates-vous fan des sitcoms am\u00e9ricaines ? Alors vous devez \u00eatre familier avec \u00ab\u00a0Comment j&#039;ai rencontr\u00e9 votre m\u00e8re\u00a0\u00bb. La s\u00e9rie dramatique amusante a donn\u00e9 naissance \u00e0 la th\u00e9orie des Reacher et des colons. La th\u00e9orie affirme que dans toute relation, il y a un colon et un colon. Cela signifie simplement que l\u2019un des deux partenaires dans une relation se contente de l\u2019autre. L&#039;autre personne, cependant, est impliqu\u00e9e dans une relation avec quelqu&#039;un qui ne fait pas partie de sa ligue, le Settler.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Yes_Opposites_attract\"><\/span>Oui! Les contraires s&#039;attirent<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avez-vous d\u00e9j\u00e0 rencontr\u00e9 un couple et vous \u00eates-vous demand\u00e9 : \u00ab\u00a0Pourquoi sortirait-elle avec lui\u00a0!\u00a0\u00bb Bien s\u00fbr, vous l\u2019avez fait. Un exemple est lorsqu&#039;une femme tr\u00e8s attirante sort avec un homme extr\u00eamement peu attirant, qui se trouve \u00eatre un mec adorable. Le <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.exotic-africa.com\/female-escorts\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dame sexy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> est clairement la Colonne et vous lui diriez certainement qu&#039;elle pourrait faire mieux. Cependant, l&#039;homme doit constamment offrir beaucoup de cadeaux ou d&#039;\u00e9loges et devient ainsi le Reacher.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6429 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Speed-Darlington-tells-Tiwa-Savage-why-she-should-Date-Him-lucipost-300x189.jpg\" alt=\"Reacher and Settler\" width=\"300\" height=\"189\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Speed-Darlington-tells-Tiwa-Savage-why-she-should-Date-Him-lucipost-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Speed-Darlington-tells-Tiwa-Savage-why-she-should-Date-Him-lucipost.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un autre exemple est lorsque vous ressentez cette sensation g\u00e9niale lorsque vous recevez <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.exotic-africa.com\/african-hookups\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">branch\u00e9<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> avec votre partenaire pour la premi\u00e8re fois. Cela commence comme un plaisir plut\u00f4t discret et d\u00e9contract\u00e9 et le sexe est toujours bon. Ensuite, vous arrivez \u00e0 un point o\u00f9 vous appr\u00e9ciez r\u00e9ellement la compagnie de l&#039;autre, mais l&#039;homme, dans ce cas, n&#039;aime pas autant la femme qu&#039;elle l&#039;aime. La femme r\u00e9alisant qu&#039;elle a besoin de \u00ab\u00a0plus\u00a0\u00bb d\u00e9veloppe une envie pressante de lui envoyer des SMS d&#039;abord et davantage. Cela fait d&#039;elle la Reacher.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A lire aussi : <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/signs-of-emotional-manipulation\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Signes de manipulation \u00e9motionnelle<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Nim_Notty_Chronicles\"><\/span>Chroniques de Nim Notty<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dans toutes les relations que j\u2019ai eues, une incapacit\u00e9 \u00e0 trouver un bon \u00e9quilibre des pouvoirs a finalement conduit \u00e0 une rupture. J&#039;ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que cet \u00e9quilibre pouvait \u00eatre perturb\u00e9 de plusieurs mani\u00e8res. De nombreuses personnes finissent par \u00eatre mal trait\u00e9es et se sentent manqu\u00e9es de respect dans leurs relations. Par cons\u00e9quent, beaucoup de gens ne traitent pas leur partenaire comme ils le devraient dans une relation. Et j&#039;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 l&#039;un d&#039;eux pendant de nombreuses ann\u00e9es.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En r\u00e8gle g\u00e9n\u00e9rale, cela commen\u00e7ait par la rencontre de Nim Notty avec une fille qui m&#039;avait \u00e9pat\u00e9, qui m&#039;avait inspir\u00e9 et que j&#039;admirais. Je me sentais comme le atteint. Mais au fil du temps, apr\u00e8s avoir pass\u00e9 un ou deux ans ensemble, parfois emm\u00e9nageant, parfois non, l&#039;enthousiasme initial s&#039;estompait et l&#039;\u00e9quilibre changeait. L\u2019inspiration que j\u2019avais n\u2019\u00e9tait plus suffisante. Mon partenaire commencerait \u00e0 m&#039;ennuyer au plus haut point. Je ne voulais pas m&#039;installer et je ne supportais m\u00eame pas la fa\u00e7on dont ils respiraient. Je me sentais sup\u00e9rieur. Et je me d\u00e9testais pour \u00e7a : je n\u2019ai jamais voulu que la relation prenne ce cours.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chaque fois que je reconnaissais ce sch\u00e9ma, je voulais d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9ment que cela cesse, mais cela continuait \u00e0 se produire. Mon partenaire finirait par \u00eatre celui qui me voudrait, aurait besoin de moi, m&#039;aimerait davantage. Et j&#039;\u00e9tais malheureuse, incertaine de savoir o\u00f9 \u00e9tait pass\u00e9 l&#039;amour, me retrouvant tourn\u00e9e vers une nouvelle inspiration ailleurs, pensant que j&#039;\u00e9tais avec le m\u00e9chant. Et puis tout recommencerait.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>J\u2019en avais marre du m\u00eame vieux cycle et j\u2019ai d\u00fb faire un changement. Voici comment j&#039;ai proc\u00e9d\u00e9 :<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_To_Keep_The_Balance\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comment garder l&#039;\u00e9quilibre<\/span><b>\u00a0<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Understand_What_you_need_from_a_Partner_and_from_the_Relationship\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comprendre ce dont vous avez besoin d&#039;un partenaire et de la relation<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00catre amoureux ne signifie pas que la relation durera \u00e9ternellement. Arr\u00eatez d&#039;\u00eatre un romantique d\u00e9sesp\u00e9r\u00e9. Essayez toujours de comprendre qui vous \u00eates et avec quel genre de personne vous voulez \u00eatre.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Understand_your_role_in_Keeping_the_Balance\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comprenez votre r\u00f4le dans le maintien de l\u2019\u00e9quilibre.<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6430 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/work-life-balance-jackrabbit-technologies-300x111.png\" alt=\"Balance\" width=\"300\" height=\"111\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/work-life-balance-jackrabbit-technologies-300x111.png 300w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/work-life-balance-jackrabbit-technologies-768x284.png 768w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/work-life-balance-jackrabbit-technologies.png 851w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Des relations saines se d\u00e9veloppent lorsque deux individus ind\u00e9pendants nouent un lien sans perdre le contact avec leurs propres besoins et d\u00e9sirs (sans oublier qui ils sont vraiment)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Assurez-vous que vous vous sentez tous les deux connect\u00e9s et non attach\u00e9s.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Address_it_as_soon_as_you_see_it\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">R\u00e9pondez-y d\u00e8s que vous le voyez.<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La pleine conscience et la communication sont importantes. Ne vous glissez pas dans un endroit o\u00f9 vous ne voulez pas \u00eatre et, tout aussi important, ne laissez pas votre partenaire glisser.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A lire aussi : <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/how-to-make-your-partner-feel-appreciated-without-spending-a-dime\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comment faire en sorte que votre partenaire se sente appr\u00e9ci\u00e9 sans d\u00e9penser un centime<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Bottomline\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Conclusion\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Les croyances sont puissantes. Quel que soit le r\u00f4le que vous assumez, votre environnement et votre relation le manifesteront.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n <img src='https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/dp-post-views\/images\/eyes.png' class='dppv_eyes' width='100' height='100'> 2940","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Temps de lecture: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 4<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>Alors, quel c\u00f4t\u00e9 de votre relation est beurr\u00e9? 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