{"id":29028,"date":"2026-03-26T14:20:31","date_gmt":"2026-03-26T11:20:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/?p=29028"},"modified":"2026-03-26T14:26:59","modified_gmt":"2026-03-26T11:26:59","slug":"telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"I Used to Have a Girlfriend\u2014Now What Do I Tell My Boyfriend?"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Temps de lecture: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 3<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_84 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Contenu des pages<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a212470acd78\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Basculer<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a212470acd78\"  aria-label=\"Basculer\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/#Telling_Your_Boyfriend_You_Used_to_Have_a_Girlfriend\" >Telling Your Boyfriend You Used to Have a Girlfriend<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/#How_to_Share_Your_Queer_History_Without_Making_It_Awkward\" >How to Share Your Queer History Without Making It Awkward<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/#Why_This_Conversation_Feels_Bigger_Than_It_Should\" >Why This Conversation Feels Bigger Than It Should<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/#Do_You_Actually_Have_to_Tell_Him\" >Do You Actually Have to Tell Him?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/#When_Is_the_Right_Time\" >When Is the Right Time?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/#How_to_Say_It_Without_Making_It_Weird\" >How to Say It Without Making It Weird<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/#Handling_His_Reaction_Like_an_Adult_Even_If_He_Doesnt\" >Handling His Reaction Like an Adult (Even If He Doesn\u2019t)<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/#What_Not_to_Do\" >What Not to Do<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/#Why_This_Conversation_Actually_Matters\" >Why This Conversation Actually Matters<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/#Its_Not_a_Confession_Its_Context\" >It\u2019s Not a Confession. It\u2019s Context.<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1 data-section-id=\"1sdzqhy\" data-start=\"176\" data-end=\"236\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Telling_Your_Boyfriend_You_Used_to_Have_a_Girlfriend\"><\/span><span role=\"text\"><strong data-start=\"178\" data-end=\"234\">Telling Your Boyfriend You Used to Have a Girlfriend<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<h3 data-section-id=\"1fhnvda\" data-start=\"237\" data-end=\"300\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_Share_Your_Queer_History_Without_Making_It_Awkward\"><\/span><span role=\"text\"><em data-start=\"241\" data-end=\"300\">How to Share Your Queer History Without Making It Awkward<\/em><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p data-start=\"302\" data-end=\"382\">Let\u2019s be honest\u2014this conversation feels bigger in your head than it actually is.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"384\" data-end=\"544\">Saying <em data-start=\"391\" data-end=\"422\">\u201cI used to have a girlfriend\u201d<\/em> can feel like dropping a plot twist\u2026 when really, you\u2019re just sharing a chapter of your life. No dramatic music required.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"546\" data-end=\"744\">In a perfect world, your dating history would simply be that\u2014history. Whether your ex was a \u201che,\u201d \u201cshe,\u201d or \u201cthey,\u201d it wouldn\u2019t come with extra interpretation, confusion, or unsolicited imagination.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"746\" data-end=\"778\">But we don\u2019t live in that world.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"780\" data-end=\"909\">We live in a world where one sentence can trigger curiosity, assumptions, or the occasional <em data-start=\"872\" data-end=\"909\">\u201cwait\u2026 what does that mean for me?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"911\" data-end=\"1015\">So how do you say it in a way that feels natural, confident, and\u2014most importantly\u2014not like a confession?<\/p>\n<h2 data-section-id=\"7a900a\" data-start=\"1022\" data-end=\"1078\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_This_Conversation_Feels_Bigger_Than_It_Should\"><\/span><span role=\"text\"><strong data-start=\"1025\" data-end=\"1078\">Why This Conversation Feels Bigger Than It Should<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"1080\" data-end=\"1163\">This isn\u2019t just about your past. It\u2019s about what your partner might <em data-start=\"1148\" data-end=\"1163\">read into it.<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1165\" data-end=\"1232\">Many women hesitate because they anticipate one of these reactions:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1234\" data-end=\"1375\"><strong data-start=\"1234\" data-end=\"1255\">The Fetishization<\/strong><br data-start=\"1255\" data-end=\"1258\" \/>He suddenly thinks your past is \u201chot\u201d and starts asking questions that belong in a completely different conversation.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1377\" data-end=\"1474\"><strong data-start=\"1377\" data-end=\"1395\">The Insecurity<\/strong><br data-start=\"1395\" data-end=\"1398\" \/>He wonders if he can \u201ccompete\u201d or starts questioning your attraction to him.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1476\" data-end=\"1577\"><strong data-start=\"1476\" data-end=\"1493\">The Dismissal<\/strong><br data-start=\"1493\" data-end=\"1496\" \/>He brushes it off as a \u201cphase,\u201d minimizing what was actually a real relationship.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1579\" data-end=\"1596\">Here\u2019s the truth:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1598\" data-end=\"1707\"><strong data-start=\"1598\" data-end=\"1638\">Your past is not a problem to solve.<\/strong><br data-start=\"1638\" data-end=\"1641\" \/>It\u2019s part of what shaped you\u2014and it\u2019s exactly what led you to him.<\/p>\n<h2 data-section-id=\"1xt0ck5\" data-start=\"1714\" data-end=\"1754\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Do_You_Actually_Have_to_Tell_Him\"><\/span><span role=\"text\"><strong data-start=\"1717\" data-end=\"1754\">Do You Actually Have to Tell Him?<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"1756\" data-end=\"1790\">Short answer: no. Not immediately.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1792\" data-end=\"1866\">You don\u2019t owe anyone your full relationship history on day one\u2014or day ten.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1868\" data-end=\"1897\">But it <em data-start=\"1875\" data-end=\"1879\">is<\/em> worth sharing if:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"1898\" data-end=\"2043\">\n<li data-section-id=\"5yk001\" data-start=\"1898\" data-end=\"1929\">You see long-term potential<\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"1t0ndon\" data-start=\"1930\" data-end=\"1987\">Your identity (bisexual, queer, fluid) matters to you<\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"vfdu41\" data-start=\"1988\" data-end=\"2043\">You want openness instead of selective storytelling<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"2045\" data-end=\"2173\">This isn\u2019t about \u201ccoming out\u201d again.<br data-start=\"2081\" data-end=\"2084\" \/>It\u2019s about letting someone know you fully\u2014not just the version that\u2019s easiest to explain.<\/p>\n<h2 data-section-id=\"h4zo8o\" data-start=\"2180\" data-end=\"2210\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"When_Is_the_Right_Time\"><\/span><span role=\"text\"><strong data-start=\"2183\" data-end=\"2210\">When Is the Right Time?<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"2212\" data-end=\"2260\">Timing can turn this from awkward to effortless.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2262\" data-end=\"2283\"><strong data-start=\"2262\" data-end=\"2283\">The best moments:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"2284\" data-end=\"2439\">\n<li data-section-id=\"t8mz3t\" data-start=\"2284\" data-end=\"2333\">During conversations about past relationships<\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"1o60ya4\" data-start=\"2334\" data-end=\"2391\">When discussing identity, values, or life experiences<\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"qai7jc\" data-start=\"2392\" data-end=\"2439\">When you feel emotionally safe and grounded<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"2441\" data-end=\"2463\"><strong data-start=\"2441\" data-end=\"2463\">The worst moments:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"2464\" data-end=\"2584\">\n<li data-section-id=\"tt01dn\" data-start=\"2464\" data-end=\"2502\">During an argument (instant chaos)<\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"8jbt7w\" data-start=\"2503\" data-end=\"2529\">As a random \u201cfun fact\u201d<\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"n2z8es\" data-start=\"2530\" data-end=\"2584\">At 2 a.m., when everything feels deeper than it is<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"2586\" data-end=\"2631\">This isn\u2019t a confession. It\u2019s a conversation.<\/p>\n<h2 data-section-id=\"1qn74w3\" data-start=\"2638\" data-end=\"2682\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_Say_It_Without_Making_It_Weird\"><\/span><span role=\"text\"><strong data-start=\"2641\" data-end=\"2682\">How to Say It Without Making It Weird<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"2684\" data-end=\"2743\">You don\u2019t need a speech, a disclaimer, or a dramatic pause.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2745\" data-end=\"2774\">Keep it simple and confident:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2776\" data-end=\"2889\"><strong data-start=\"2776\" data-end=\"2787\">Casual:<\/strong><br data-start=\"2787\" data-end=\"2790\" \/>\u201cI actually went there years ago with an ex-girlfriend. It was a serious relationship at the time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2891\" data-end=\"2972\"><strong data-start=\"2891\" data-end=\"2902\">Direct:<\/strong><br data-start=\"2902\" data-end=\"2905\" \/>\u201cI want to share something about my past\u2014I\u2019ve dated a girl before.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2974\" data-end=\"3104\"><strong data-start=\"2974\" data-end=\"2993\">Identity-based:<\/strong><br data-start=\"2993\" data-end=\"2996\" \/>\u201cI\u2019ve been in relationships with both men and women. It\u2019s part of who I am, and I want to be open with you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3106\" data-end=\"3116\">That\u2019s it.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3118\" data-end=\"3188\">No over-explaining. No overthinking. No turning it into a documentary.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3190\" data-end=\"3235\"><strong data-start=\"3190\" data-end=\"3235\">Confidence does most of the work for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 data-section-id=\"1gycnw8\" data-start=\"3242\" data-end=\"3305\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Handling_His_Reaction_Like_an_Adult_Even_If_He_Doesnt\"><\/span><span role=\"text\"><strong data-start=\"3245\" data-end=\"3305\">Handling His Reaction Like an Adult (Even If He Doesn\u2019t)<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"3307\" data-end=\"3407\">People process new information differently. His first reaction isn\u2019t always his final understanding.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3409\" data-end=\"3459\"><strong data-start=\"3409\" data-end=\"3425\">If he\u2019s calm<\/strong><br data-start=\"3425\" data-end=\"3428\" \/>Great. Continue life as normal.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3461\" data-end=\"3564\"><strong data-start=\"3461\" data-end=\"3480\">If he\u2019s curious<\/strong><br data-start=\"3480\" data-end=\"3483\" \/>Answer what you\u2019re comfortable with. Treat it like any other past relationship.<\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"3565\" data-end=\"3629\">\n<p data-start=\"3567\" data-end=\"3629\">\u201cI\u2019m happy to share, but I\u2019d rather not go into every detail.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"3631\" data-end=\"3696\"><strong data-start=\"3631\" data-end=\"3651\">If he\u2019s insecure<\/strong><br data-start=\"3651\" data-end=\"3654\" \/>Reassure him\u2014without shrinking yourself.<\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"3697\" data-end=\"3758\">\n<p data-start=\"3699\" data-end=\"3758\">\u201cMy past doesn\u2019t change how I feel about you. I chose you.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"3760\" data-end=\"3817\"><strong data-start=\"3760\" data-end=\"3785\">If he makes it sexual<\/strong><br data-start=\"3785\" data-end=\"3788\" \/>Set boundaries immediately.<\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"3818\" data-end=\"3900\">\n<p data-start=\"3820\" data-end=\"3900\">\u201cMy past relationships aren\u2019t for entertainment. I\u2019m sharing this to be honest.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"3902\" data-end=\"3966\"><strong data-start=\"3902\" data-end=\"3925\">If he reacts poorly<\/strong><br data-start=\"3925\" data-end=\"3928\" \/>That\u2019s not your responsibility to fix.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3968\" data-end=\"4018\">It\u2019s information\u2014and valuable information at that.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"4020\" data-end=\"4023\" \/>\n<h2 data-section-id=\"1v7widm\" data-start=\"4025\" data-end=\"4046\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Not_to_Do\"><\/span><span role=\"text\"><strong data-start=\"4028\" data-end=\"4046\">What Not to Do<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul data-start=\"4047\" data-end=\"4214\">\n<li data-section-id=\"1ytpihc\" data-start=\"4047\" data-end=\"4080\">Don\u2019t apologize for your past<\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"11at4tz\" data-start=\"4081\" data-end=\"4115\">Don\u2019t minimize your experience<\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"1pfh7gt\" data-start=\"4116\" data-end=\"4159\">Don\u2019t let it turn into an interrogation<\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"19pba2c\" data-start=\"4160\" data-end=\"4214\">Don\u2019t edit your story to make it more \u201cacceptable\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"4216\" data-end=\"4273\">You\u2019re not presenting a version of yourself for approval.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4275\" data-end=\"4293\">You\u2019re being real.<\/p>\n<h2 data-section-id=\"13wnfaz\" data-start=\"4300\" data-end=\"4345\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_This_Conversation_Actually_Matters\"><\/span><span role=\"text\"><strong data-start=\"4303\" data-end=\"4345\">Why This Conversation Actually Matters<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"4347\" data-end=\"4391\">This isn\u2019t just about telling him something.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4393\" data-end=\"4404\">It\u2019s about:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4406\" data-end=\"4503\"><strong data-start=\"4406\" data-end=\"4431\">Vetting compatibility<\/strong><br data-start=\"4431\" data-end=\"4434\" \/>Can he handle your truth\u2014or does he need a simplified version of you?<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4505\" data-end=\"4584\"><strong data-start=\"4505\" data-end=\"4531\">Building real intimacy<\/strong><br data-start=\"4531\" data-end=\"4534\" \/>Honesty creates depth. Avoidance creates distance.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4586\" data-end=\"4685\"><strong data-start=\"4586\" data-end=\"4610\">Living authentically<\/strong><br data-start=\"4610\" data-end=\"4613\" \/>You shouldn\u2019t have to censor your past to keep your present comfortable.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4687\" data-end=\"4754\">Because constantly filtering yourself?<br data-start=\"4725\" data-end=\"4728\" \/>That gets exhausting\u2014fast.<\/p>\n<h2 data-section-id=\"yzhq7b\" data-start=\"4761\" data-end=\"4804\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Its_Not_a_Confession_Its_Context\"><\/span><span role=\"text\"><strong data-start=\"4764\" data-end=\"4804\">It\u2019s Not a Confession. It\u2019s Context.<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"4806\" data-end=\"4895\">Telling your boyfriend you used to have a girlfriend isn\u2019t a revelation\u2014it\u2019s information.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4897\" data-end=\"4955\">You\u2019re not asking for permission. You\u2019re offering honesty.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4957\" data-end=\"5111\">The right person won\u2019t overreact, overanalyze, or overcomplicate it.<br data-start=\"5025\" data-end=\"5028\" \/>They\u2019ll understand that your past is simply part of the story that led you to them.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5118\" data-end=\"5259\">And if you&#8217;re exploring real, honest conversations about relationships, identity, and modern intimacy, you\u2019ll find more at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/\"><strong data-start=\"5241\" data-end=\"5258\">Afrique \u00e9rotique<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n <img src='https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/dp-post-views\/images\/eyes.png' class='dppv_eyes' width='100' height='100'> 835","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Temps de lecture: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 3<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>Telling Your Boyfriend You Used to Have a Girlfriend How to Share Your Queer History &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/telling-boyfriend-used-to-have-girlfriend\/\" class=\"more-link\">En savoir plus<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":215,"featured_media":29035,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[208,500],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29028","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-featured","category-relationship-and-dating","entry"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.5 (Yoast SEO v27.7) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>I Used to Have a Girlfriend\u2014Now What Do I Tell My Boyfriend? - Erotic Africa Adult Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Wondering how to tell your boyfriend you used to have a girlfriend? 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