{"id":20443,"date":"2024-08-07T20:17:52","date_gmt":"2024-08-07T17:17:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/?p=20443"},"modified":"2024-08-07T20:17:52","modified_gmt":"2024-08-07T17:17:52","slug":"a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Guide du d\u00e9butant pour une relation ouverte"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 6<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><div class=\"flex-1 overflow-hidden\">\n<div class=\"h-full\">\n<div class=\"react-scroll-to-bottom--css-gomyy-79elbk h-full\">\n<div class=\"react-scroll-to-bottom--css-gomyy-1n7m0yu\">\n<div class=\"flex flex-col text-sm\">\n<div class=\"w-full text-token-text-primary\" dir=\"auto\" 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style=\"cursor:inherit\">Page Contents<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a610f995f2eb\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a610f995f2eb\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#What_Is_an_Open_Relationship\" >What Is an Open Relationship?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#How_Do_Open_Relationships_Work\" >How Do Open Relationships Work?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Setting_Boundaries\" >Setting Boundaries<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Sharing_Details_vs_%E2%80%9CDont_Ask_Dont_Tell%E2%80%9D\" >Sharing Details vs. \u201cDon\u2019t Ask, Don\u2019t Tell\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Hierarchy_vs_Non-Hierarchy\" >Hierarchy vs. Non-Hierarchy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Weekly_Check-Ins\" >Weekly Check-Ins<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Take_It_Slow\" >Take It Slow<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Is_an_Open_Relationship_Right_for_You\" >Is an Open Relationship Right for You?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#The_Pros_and_Cons_of_an_Open_Relationship\" >The Pros and Cons of an Open Relationship<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Tips_for_Discussing_an_Open_Relationship_with_Your_Partner\" >Tips for Discussing an Open Relationship with Your Partner<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Know_Your_Goals\" >Know Your Goals<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Choose_the_Right_Setting\" >Choose the Right Setting<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Be_Transparent\" >Be Transparent<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Approach_Without_Judgment\" >Approach Without Judgment<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Stay_Calm\" >Stay Calm<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Define_Boundaries\" >Define Boundaries<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Clarify_Relationship_Structure\" >Clarify Relationship Structure<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-18\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#Listen_and_Empathize\" >Listen and Empathize<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-19\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#What_to_Do_If_Your_Open_Relationship_Isnt_Working\" >What to Do If Your Open Relationship Isn\u2019t Working<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-4' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-4'><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-4' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-20\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/a-beginners-guide-to-an-open-relationship\/#In_Conclusion\" >In Conclusion<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Is_an_Open_Relationship\"><\/span>What Is an Open Relationship?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>An open relationship is a broad term that involves various forms of non-monogamy. This can include arrangements like couples who have threesomes but only engage with others when both partners are present. Some couples may choose to explore sexual encounters with others only when one partner is away.<\/p>\n<p>Others might delve into their fetishes or kinks with other people while maintaining their primary sexual relationship with their partner. Many people in open relationships might form long-lasting emotional and sexual bonds with multiple partners, known as polyamory. The possibilities are vast, allowing you and your partner to explore different dynamics to find what works best for both of you.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_Do_Open_Relationships_Work\"><\/span>How Do Open Relationships Work?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.webmd.com\/sex\/what-does-open-relationship-mean\">There&#8217;s no definitive evidence that open relationships are more likely to fail than monogamous ones, despite common assumptions.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Just like in monogamous relationships, you can experience security, value, and love in an open relationship.<\/p>\n<p>As DeRosa notes, \u201cThe success of a relationship depends on how we measure it. Most relationships face challenges, regardless of their structure. The health of any relationship is determined by the participants. Effective communication and proactive engagement are key, and I see no significant difference in outcomes based on relationship structure.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Open relationships thrive on the same principles as monogamous ones: clear communication, established boundaries, and mutual trust. They can be successful when both partners understand and agree on the rules, and when there&#8217;s no underlying sense of inequality.<\/p>\n<div class=\"markdown prose w-full break-words dark:prose-invert light\">\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Setting_Boundaries\"><\/span>Setting Boundaries<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The first step in opening up your relationship is to discuss and establish clear boundaries with your partner. These boundaries will vary based on individual preferences and the reasons for opening the relationship. It&#8217;s important to cover all details, such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If you&#8217;re exploring your queer identity, are there specific gender boundaries for sexual engagement?<\/li>\n<li>If one partner has a higher libido, does that mean sexual relationships are permitted but emotional connections and sleepovers are off-limits?<\/li>\n<li>What are the rules for safe sex?<\/li>\n<li>How will new partners be introduced to friends and family?<\/li>\n<li>Are you comfortable with new partners visiting your home if you live together?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Discussing and agreeing on these specifics helps prevent accidental boundary crossings. Concrete rules, such as &#8220;no sleepovers,&#8221; are often more effective than rules based on emotions, like &#8220;don&#8217;t fall in love.&#8221; Remember, you might not know exactly what you need until you encounter new situations, making this a fluid and evolving process.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-20445\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/open-relationships-kcm.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"555\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/open-relationships-kcm.webp 900w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/open-relationships-kcm-300x185.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/open-relationships-kcm-768x474.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/open-relationships-kcm-18x12.webp 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sharing_Details_vs_%E2%80%9CDont_Ask_Dont_Tell%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>Sharing Details vs. \u201cDon\u2019t Ask, Don\u2019t Tell\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Consider whether you want to know every detail of your partner\u2019s interactions with others or if you prefer to stay in the dark. Some people might not want to know specifics but may still want to be aware of major milestones, such as penetrative sex or developing emotional connections. Respecting your partner\u2019s preferences for how much information they want to share is crucial, as too much information can be overwhelming.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Hierarchy_vs_Non-Hierarchy\"><\/span>Hierarchy vs. Non-Hierarchy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>For those open to multiple romantic and sexual relationships, deciding on a hierarchical or non-hierarchical approach is important. In a hierarchical relationship, one partner may be considered primary, with others being secondary or tertiary.<\/p>\n<p>Secondary partners might have fewer expectations regarding time spent together, living arrangements, or family planning. Transitioning from a monogamous to a hierarchical or non-hierarchical relationship can be challenging, especially for new partners who may feel less prioritized.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Weekly_Check-Ins\"><\/span>Weekly Check-Ins<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Adjusting to an open relationship is a flexible process. Regular weekly check-ins can help you both assess how you\u2019re feeling and how well the boundaries are working. It\u2019s often necessary to renegotiate and adapt as you find what works for both of you. Keep track of your feelings throughout the week rather than sending urgent texts while your partner is on a date. Flexibility and open communication are key as you navigate this new territory.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Take_It_Slow\"><\/span>Take It Slow<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019re new to open relationships, start gradually. For instance, you might begin by allowing one partner to flirt with others while still maintaining a focus on your primary relationship. This doesn\u2019t have to involve physical activity but can help you gauge how comfortable you both are with this new dynamic. Depending on your reasons for opening the relationship, you can gradually progress to more explicit activities.<\/p>\n<p>Opening up your relationship can be a transformative experience. Honest communication with your partner throughout the process is essential. Be prepared for evolving rules and challenging conversations, but remember that finding a dynamic that works for both of you can be incredibly rewarding.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Is_an_Open_Relationship_Right_for_You\"><\/span>Is an Open Relationship Right for You?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>There\u2019s no one-size-fits-all answer to whether an open relationship is right for you.<\/p>\n<p>To begin with, if the idea of sharing your primary partner or engaging in additional sexual encounters makes you uncomfortable, consensual non-monogamy (CNM) might not be the best fit.<\/p>\n<p>According to Sophia Turner, a relationship and sex therapist from Chicago, Illinois, here are some indicators that an open relationship could be a good match for you:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The idea of having multiple sexual partners excites you.<\/li>\n<li>You\u2019re interested in exploring different types of relationship dynamics.<\/li>\n<li>You\u2019re ready to engage in open, honest, and compassionate communication with your partner.<\/li>\n<li>You have the time to invest in managing multiple relationships.<\/li>\n<li>You feel prepared to handle the jealousy that might come with an open relationship.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Pros_and_Cons_of_an_Open_Relationship\"><\/span>The Pros and Cons of an Open Relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A 2020 longitudinal study found that people in consensual non-monogamous (CNM) relationships report similar levels of happiness as those in monogamous relationships. Open relationships can offer several specific benefits, such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Increased sexual satisfaction<\/li>\n<li>Stronger communication skills<\/li>\n<li>A broader social network and more connections<\/li>\n<li>A renewed sense of excitement or adventure in the relationship<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>However, open relationships can also present challenges, particularly if boundaries are unclear or if one partner is less enthusiastic about sexual intimacy with others. Potential downsides include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Anxiety or fear related to the relationship<\/li>\n<li>Jealousy<\/li>\n<li>Risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs)<\/li>\n<li>Challenges with time management and partner commitment<\/li>\n<li>Additional expenses associated with having multiple partners<\/li>\n<li>Navigating situations where secondary partners seek deeper involvement<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tips_for_Discussing_an_Open_Relationship_with_Your_Partner\"><\/span>Tips for Discussing an Open Relationship with Your Partner<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Effective, honest communication is essential for a successful open relationship. Initiating a conversation about this type of relationship can reveal how well your communication skills will hold up over time.<\/p>\n<p>To facilitate this discussion, DeRosa, Dirksen, and Turner suggest the following tips:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Know_Your_Goals\"><\/span>Know Your Goals<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Be clear about what you want and why you want it before starting the conversation.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Choose_the_Right_Setting\"><\/span>Choose the Right Setting<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Find a time and place where both of you feel safe, relaxed, and comfortable.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Be_Transparent\"><\/span>Be Transparent<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Clearly express your intentions and motivations.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Approach_Without_Judgment\"><\/span>Approach Without Judgment<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<li>Keep the conversation open and non-judgmental.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Stay_Calm\"><\/span>Stay Calm<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Maintain a composed demeanor throughout the discussion.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Define_Boundaries\"><\/span>Define Boundaries<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Be ready to discuss specific boundaries, such as the number, age, and gender of potential partners.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Clarify_Relationship_Structure\"><\/span>Clarify Relationship Structure<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0Specify the type of open relationship you\u2019re interested in (e.g., open vs. polyamory).<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Listen_and_Empathize\"><\/span>Listen and Empathize<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<\/li>\n<li>Focus on understanding and empathizing with your partner&#8217;s perspective.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As Dirksen points out, \u201cIf your partner says no, you may need to reflect on what you want from your future sex and love life and engage in more difficult conversations.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Remember, for an open relationship to work, both partners need to be comfortable and satisfied with the relationship structure.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_to_Do_If_Your_Open_Relationship_Isnt_Working\"><\/span>What to Do If Your Open Relationship Isn\u2019t Working<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s not uncommon for individuals to reevaluate their open relationship. If you find that this arrangement isn\u2019t working\u2014whether due to jealousy, communication issues, changes in personal desires, or other factors\u2014it&#8217;s important to discuss your feelings with your partner and explore how to move forward together.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/what-is-an-open-relationship-1022075\">Dr. Anderson advises, \u201cIf an open relationship isn\u2019t working, have an open conversation with your partner.<\/a> Discuss why it\u2019s not working and understand what both of you need from the primary relationship. Consider whether there are ways to repair the relationship or if a temporary break from non-monogamy might help. It\u2019s common for couples to periodically close their relationship and then re-open it. The key is maintaining ongoing communication and recognizing that needs will evolve over time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Tara also suggests seeking the help of a therapist experienced in non-monogamy to address relationship issues. \u201cIf therapy leads you to realize that ending the relationship might be the best option, have a discussion for closure and part ways respectfully. Take time to heal and focus on your physical and mental well-being. When you\u2019re ready, you can either continue dating as a single person looking for a non-monogamous partner or reconsider monogamy if you find that an open relationship isn\u2019t right for you.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mt-1 flex gap-3 empty:hidden -ml-2\">\n<div class=\"items-center justify-start rounded-xl p-1 flex\">\n<h4 class=\"flex items-center\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"In_Conclusion\"><\/span>In Conclusion<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n<div>\n<p>The key to a successful open relationship is a genuine interest in exploring this dynamic. It&#8217;s crucial that both partners are on board with the idea; otherwise, resentment and discomfort can arise.<\/p>\n<p>Opening up a relationship simply because it&#8217;s trendy or to prevent losing a partner is likely to lead to issues. Before making any decisions, reflect on whether this is something you&#8217;re truly interested in pursuing.<\/p>\n<p>Open relationships often suit individuals who are comfortable analyzing and expressing their emotions and who have the time and energy to navigate the challenges that come with trying something new. Expect some initial strain as you and your partner find your rhythm.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n <img src='https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/dp-post-views\/images\/eyes.png' class='dppv_eyes' width='100' height='100'> 1791","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Temps de lecture: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 6<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>Qu&#039;est-ce qu&#039;une relation ouverte ? 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