{"id":20252,"date":"2024-07-04T20:31:59","date_gmt":"2024-07-04T17:31:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/?p=20252"},"modified":"2024-07-04T20:31:59","modified_gmt":"2024-07-04T17:31:59","slug":"attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Styles d\u2019attachement et comment ils affectent les relations"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Temps de lecture: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 6<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span><div dir=\"auto\">Les styles d&#039;attachement dans les relations sont un sujet d&#039;int\u00e9r\u00eat dans les relations entre les gens et dans la recherche, car ils am\u00e8nent les gens \u00e0 comprendre leurs sch\u00e9mas de pens\u00e9e et leurs comportements. Ce niveau d\u2019int\u00e9r\u00eat est compr\u00e9hensible puisque les diff\u00e9rents styles d\u2019attachement dans les relations peuvent avoir un impact sur les relations ou interactions interpersonnelles de diverses mani\u00e8res.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Les types d\u2019attachement se d\u00e9veloppent t\u00f4t dans la vie et restent stables au fil du temps. Cela ne signifie pas qu\u2019ils ne peuvent pas \u00eatre transform\u00e9s en formes d\u2019attachement plus s\u00e9curis\u00e9es. Cela signifie que vous devrez peut-\u00eatre d\u00e9velopper une conscience de soi gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 une compr\u00e9hension mutuelle et \u00e0 la r\u00e9solution de ces probl\u00e8mes d&#039;attachement.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">La premi\u00e8re \u00e9tape est de savoir comment l\u2019attachement ins\u00e9cure se d\u00e9clenche, se d\u00e9veloppe et quelle influence il a sur les pens\u00e9es et les actions au sein des relations dans nos vies.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_84 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Contenu des pages<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a211d5f666a7\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Basculer<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" 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href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships\/#What_are_Attachment_Styles_and_how_do_they_Affect_Relationships\" >Que sont les styles d\u2019attachement et comment affectent-ils les relations ?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships\/#Attachment_Types_Develop_in_Childhood\" >Les types d\u2019attachement se d\u00e9veloppent pendant l\u2019enfance<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships\/#Secure_Attachment_Style\" >Style de fixation s\u00e9curis\u00e9e<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships\/#Secure_Attachment_Style_and_Adult_Relationships\" >Style d\u2019attachement s\u00e9curis\u00e9 et relations avec les adultes<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships\/#Primary_Caregiver_Relationship\" >Relation avec le soignant principal<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships\/#Are_you_secure_or_insecure%E2%80%94or_somewhere_in_between\" >\u00cates-vous en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 ou non, ou quelque part entre les deux\u00a0?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships\/#Avoidant-Dismissive_Attachment_Style\" >Style d\u2019attachement \u00e9vitant-d\u00e9daigneux<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships\/#Anxious_Attachment_Style\" >Style d\u2019attachement anxieux<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/fr\/attachment-styles-and-how-they-affect-relationships\/#Takeaway\" >Emporter<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_are_Attachment_Styles_and_how_do_they_Affect_Relationships\"><\/span>Que sont les styles d\u2019attachement et comment affectent-ils les relations ?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Selon le psychiatre John Bowlby, le lien d&#039;un individu avec ses principaux dispensateurs de soins pendant son enfance a une influence sur ses futures relations intimes et ses relations au travail. En d\u2019autres termes, ce lien cr\u00e9e une base ou les r\u00e8gles sur la fa\u00e7on dont vous construisez des relations dans la vie adulte.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Les travaux du psychanalyste sur la th\u00e9orie de l&#039;attachement remontent \u00e0 1905 et continuent d&#039;\u00e9voluer sur la base des recherches continues sur le sujet.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<h2 dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Attachment_Types_Develop_in_Childhood\"><\/span>Les types d\u2019attachement se d\u00e9veloppent pendant l\u2019enfance<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Essentiellement, la fa\u00e7on dont un responsable principal (g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement les parents) se comporte envers leurs enfants ou dont ils r\u00e9pondent aux besoins de leur enfant constitue la base de la fa\u00e7on dont leurs enfants per\u00e7oivent ou agissent dans les relations intimes.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">En effet, un enfant d\u00e9pend uniquement de ses soignants et recherche aupr\u00e8s d\u2019eux l\u2019apaisement, le r\u00e9confort et le soutien. Si ces soignants offrent un environnement chaleureux et sont \u00e0 l&#039;\u00e9coute des besoins \u00e9motionnels et physiques de l&#039;enfant. L&#039;enfant reste solidement attach\u00e9 m\u00eame si ces besoins ne sont pas clairement exprim\u00e9s.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">D&#039;un autre c\u00f4t\u00e9, un manque d&#039;adaptation de la part des soignants aux besoins \u00e9motionnels et physiques de leur enfant peut conduire \u00e0 un attachement ins\u00e9curisant. Leur inadaptation peut \u00eatre involontaire, mais l&#039;enfant peut avoir l&#039;impression qu&#039;ils ne r\u00e9pondent pas \u00e0 leurs besoins.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<div dir=\"auto\"><a href=\"https:\/\/markmanson.net\/attachment-styles\">Les styles d&#039;attachement sont caract\u00e9ris\u00e9s par les comportements qu&#039;un individu pr\u00e9sente au sein d&#039;une relation.<\/a>, surtout si la relation est menac\u00e9e. Par exemple, une personne ayant un style d\u2019attachement s\u00e9curis\u00e9 est capable de partager ouvertement ses sentiments et de rechercher un soutien \u00e9motionnel et psychologique lorsqu\u2019elle est confront\u00e9e \u00e0 des probl\u00e8mes relationnels.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Si vous avez un style d&#039;attachement peu s\u00fbr, vous avez tendance \u00e0 devenir collant dans vos relations intimes, \u00e0 vous comporter de mani\u00e8re manipulatrice ou \u00e9go\u00efste lorsque vous vous sentez tr\u00e8s vuln\u00e9rable ou vous pouvez \u00e9viter l&#039;intimit\u00e9.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Comprendre comment votre style d&#039;attachement influence la forme de vos relations intimes peut vous aider \u00e0 donner un sens \u00e0 votre propre comportement et \u00e0 la mani\u00e8re dont vous r\u00e9agissez \u00e0 l&#039;intimit\u00e9 sexuelle. Ces mod\u00e8les peuvent vous aider \u00e0 clarifier vos besoins dans une relation et \u00e0 surmonter les probl\u00e8mes relationnels.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<figure id=\"attachment_20253\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20253\" style=\"width: 1635px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-20253 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-4.webp\" alt=\"Experiences in adulthood determine your attachment styles\" width=\"1635\" height=\"767\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-4.webp 1635w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-4-300x141.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-4-1024x480.webp 1024w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-4-768x360.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-4-1536x721.webp 1536w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/2-4-18x8.webp 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1635px) 100vw, 1635px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20253\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Les exp\u00e9riences \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e2ge adulte d\u00e9terminent vos styles d\u2019attachement<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Bien que les styles d&#039;attachement soient fa\u00e7onn\u00e9s par le lien entre un nourrisson et son principal responsable, il convient de noter que la force de l&#039;attachement ne d\u00e9pend pas de la qualit\u00e9 des soins qu&#039;un nourrisson re\u00e7oit ou du niveau d&#039;amour parental. Elle repose sur la communication \u00e9motionnelle non verbale entre le nourrisson et son soignant.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Un nourrisson envoie des signaux non verbaux comme pleurer, pointer du doigt et sourire \u00e0 ses soignants afin de communiquer ses sentiments. Leur soignant interpr\u00e8te ces signaux non verbaux pour satisfaire le besoin d&#039;attention, de nourriture ou de r\u00e9confort de l&#039;enfant. Lorsque cette communication r\u00e9ussit, un attachement s\u00e9curis\u00e9 se d\u00e9veloppe.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Le succ\u00e8s d\u2019un attachement relationnel ne d\u00e9pend pas seulement de la relation avec votre soignant. Votre personnalit\u00e9 et vos exp\u00e9riences de vie d\u2019adulte jouent un r\u00f4le dans la formation de votre style d\u2019attachement. Ce n\u2019est donc pas une raison suffisante pour imputer vos probl\u00e8mes relationnels \u00e0 vos parents.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<h2 dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Secure_Attachment_Style\"><\/span>Style de fixation s\u00e9curis\u00e9e<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Les individus ayant un tel style d\u2019attachement sont capables de fixer des limites appropri\u00e9es. Ils ont tendance \u00e0 se sentir en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 et stables dans leurs relations. Dans la mesure o\u00f9 ils n&#039;ont pas peur d&#039;\u00eatre seuls, ils s&#039;\u00e9panouissent dans des relations \u00e9troites.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<h2 dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Secure_Attachment_Style_and_Adult_Relationships\"><\/span>Style d\u2019attachement s\u00e9curis\u00e9 et relations avec les adultes<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Cela ne signifie pas que ces personnes n&#039;\u00e9prouvent pas de probl\u00e8mes relationnels, mais elles se sentent suffisamment en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 pour assumer la responsabilit\u00e9 de leurs sentiments et chercher de l&#039;aide et du soutien chaque fois qu&#039;elles en ont besoin.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Vous appr\u00e9ciez votre estime de soi et \u00eates capable d\u2019\u00eatre vous-m\u00eame dans toutes les situations. Vous exprimez facilement vos sentiments, vos espoirs et vos besoins.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Vous trouvez souvent de la satisfaction \u00e0 \u00eatre avec les autres, recherchez le soutien de votre partenaire, mais vous ne vous inqui\u00e9tez pas lorsque votre partenaire est loin de vous.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Vous \u00eates satisfait que votre partenaire compte sur votre soutien.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Vous recherchez des moyens sains de r\u00e9soudre les conflits dans votre relation.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Vous \u00eates r\u00e9silient pour rebondir m\u00eame face \u00e0 une d\u00e9ception, un malheur ou tout revers important dans votre vie amoureuse et dans d\u2019autres secteurs de votre vie.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<h3 dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Primary_Caregiver_Relationship\"><\/span>Relation avec le soignant principal<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Les personnes ayant ce style d&#039;attachement sont susceptibles d&#039;avoir eu des soignants principaux qui sont rest\u00e9s engag\u00e9s avec elles pendant leur enfance et ont g\u00e9r\u00e9 efficacement leur stress et les ont calm\u00e9es et apais\u00e9es en p\u00e9riode de d\u00e9tresse.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Vos principaux soignants vous ont fait sentir en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 et ont r\u00e9pondu r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement \u00e0 vos besoins en veillant \u00e0 ce que votre syst\u00e8me nerveux soit solidement attach\u00e9.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Aucun parent ou tuteur n\u2019est parfait et personne ne peut \u00eatre pleinement pr\u00e9sent et attentif \u00e0 vos besoins.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<figure id=\"attachment_20254\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20254\" style=\"width: 1635px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-20254 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/1-3.webp\" alt=\" Are you secure, insecure or there in between?\" width=\"1635\" height=\"767\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/1-3.webp 1635w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/1-3-300x141.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/1-3-1024x480.webp 1024w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/1-3-768x360.webp 768w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/1-3-1536x721.webp 1536w, https:\/\/www.erotic-africa.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/1-3-18x8.webp 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1635px) 100vw, 1635px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20254\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00cates-vous en s\u00e9curit\u00e9, peu s\u00fbr ou entre les deux\u00a0?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Si votre soignant n&#039;a pas compris vos signaux non verbaux, il a probablement continu\u00e9 \u00e0 essayer de comprendre quels \u00e9taient vos besoins et a donc maintenu le processus d&#039;attachement s\u00e9curis\u00e9 sur la bonne voie. La base d&#039;un lien d&#039;attachement s\u00fbr permet \u00e0 un enfant d&#039;\u00eatre \u00e0 l&#039;aise et s\u00fbr de lui lorsqu&#039;il est confront\u00e9 \u00e0 un conflit.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<h3 dir=\"auto\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Are_you_secure_or_insecure%E2%80%94or_somewhere_in_between\"><\/span>\u00cates-vous en s\u00e9curit\u00e9 ou non, ou quelque part entre les deux\u00a0?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<div dir=\"auto\">Certaines personnes peuvent s&#039;identifier \u00e0 seulement certaines des caract\u00e9ristiques d&#039;un style d&#039;attachement s\u00e9curis\u00e9. M\u00eame si vous entretenez des relations stables, vous pouvez avoir des sch\u00e9mas de comportement ou de pens\u00e9e susceptibles de provoquer des conflits avec votre partenaire et auxquels il faut rem\u00e9dier activement.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Avoidant-Dismissive_Attachment_Style\"><\/span>Style d\u2019attachement \u00e9vitant-d\u00e9daigneux<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Les adultes ayant un style d&#039;attachement \u00e9vitant-d\u00e9daigneux n&#039;ont pas soif d&#039;intimit\u00e9, ils se m\u00e9fient plut\u00f4t de la proximit\u00e9 et ont donc tendance \u00e0 \u00e9viter d&#039;\u00eatre connect\u00e9s \u00e9motionnellement avec d&#039;autres personnes. Ils ne comptent pas sur les autres et ne s&#039;attendent pas \u00e0 ce que les autres comptent sur eux. <span style=\"color: #222222; font-family: Lato, serif; font-size: 30px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<p>Ces personnes ont tendance \u00e0 avoir du mal \u00e0 tol\u00e9rer l\u2019intimit\u00e9 \u00e9motionnelle. Ils valorisent votre ind\u00e9pendance \u00e0 un point tel que vous n&#039;\u00eates pas \u00e0 l&#039;aise avec l&#039;intimit\u00e9 ou la proximit\u00e9 dans une relation intime.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Vous \u00eates ind\u00e9pendant et content de prendre soin de vous et vous n\u2019avez pas l\u2019impression d\u2019avoir besoin des autres.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>Vous vous \u00e9loignez des personnes qui se rapprochent de vous ou qui deviennent dans le besoin.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>Vous n&#039;\u00eates pas \u00e0 l&#039;aise avec vos \u00e9motions et vos partenaires amoureux vous accusent d&#039;\u00eatre renferm\u00e9s, vous les accusez d&#039;\u00eatre dans le besoin.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>Vous ne tenez pas compte des sentiments de vos partenaires, vous engagez dans des affaires et \u00eates enclin \u00e0 mettre fin \u00e0 des relations pour acqu\u00e9rir un sentiment de libert\u00e9.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>Vous recherchez des partenaires ind\u00e9pendants et \u00e9motionnellement \u00e9loign\u00e9s des partenaires intimes \u00e0 long terme.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/abbymedcalf.com\/how-your-attachment-style-affects-your-personal-relationships\/\">Un style d\u2019attachement \u00e9vitant-d\u00e9daigneux<\/a> provient souvent d&#039;un soignant qui a rejet\u00e9 ou indisponible pendant la petite enfance. Les personnes accompagn\u00e9es de tels soignants sont oblig\u00e9es de prendre leurs distances \u00e9motionnelles et de construire une base pour \u00e9viter l&#039;intimit\u00e9 et la proximit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Anxious_Attachment_Style\"><\/span>Style d\u2019attachement anxieux<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Les personnes ayant un style d\u2019attachement anxieux sont trop n\u00e9cessiteuses. Ils sont anxieux et manquent d\u2019estime de soi. Ils ont soif d&#039;intimit\u00e9 \u00e9motionnelle mais craignent souvent que les gens ne veuillent pas \u00eatre avec eux.<\/p>\n<p>Ces personnes sont g\u00ean\u00e9es d\u2019\u00eatre collantes ou d\u2019avoir constamment besoin d\u2019attention et d\u2019amour. Vous pouvez \u00e9galement vous sentir \u00e9puis\u00e9 par la peur et l\u2019anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 de savoir si votre partenaire amoureux vous aime.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Vous souhaitez \u00eatre en couple et \u00eatre intime avec votre partenaire amoureux, mais vous avez du mal \u00e0 sentir que vous pouvez pleinement compter sur votre partenaire.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>Votre relation prend le dessus sur votre vie et vous devenez trop obs\u00e9d\u00e9 par l\u2019autre personne.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>Vous avez du mal \u00e0 respecter les limites, ce qui peut provoquer la peur que votre partenaire ne veuille plus de vous.<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<li>Vous recherchez constamment le r\u00e9confort et l\u2019attention de votre partenaire romantique.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Les personnes ayant ce type de style d&#039;attachement avaient des soignants incoh\u00e9rents, parfois engag\u00e9s ou distraits et indisponibles pour r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 vos besoins en tant que nourrisson.<\/p>\n<p>Une telle incoh\u00e9rence peut vous rendre anxieux quant \u00e0 savoir si vos besoins dans la relation seront satisfaits et fournir un mod\u00e8le pour votre comportement dans les relations ult\u00e9rieures.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Takeaway\"><\/span>Emporter<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Vivre des traumatismes dans une relation en tant que nourrisson peut interrompre votre style d&#039;attachement ou votre processus de cr\u00e9ation de liens. 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